Justice: Childhood Love Lessons & Beliefs about Families

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“Justice: Childhood Love Lessons” & “Beliefs about Families”

We have movement in today’s society. With lateral movements we remain inactive and with upward movement we upgrade ourselves in getting education, practicing sports, etc. Both movements are caused by many factors in our daily life, yet they are the effects of what we experience in the past. Misguidance, love, affection, neglect and leadership come from our nearest cluster or family. In “Justice: Childhood Love Lessons”, Bell Hooks points out that “when children are overindulged either materially or by being allowed to act out”(463), it is an example of a form of neglect. Mary Phiper also portrays the effects of lack of love, parenting and neglect within our most fundamental base in our society, the family. In “Beliefs about Families”, Pipher argues that “family need not to be traditional or biological” (379). Although, a family does not need to be traditional or biological, it has tremendous effects on communication, love, misguidance and neglect. Thus, if parents do not guide their children well, dysfunctional f...

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