Just Mine Similarities And Differences

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Every situation, not just mine, can have its similarities and differences. People act like who others want them to be in order to fit in with society and be loved by all. Everybody has “good” intentions on being someone they are not. Just like when people are themselves, people think that being what others want them to be is the best and right thing to do. People feel insecure about themselves and that is what causes them to not be who they actually are. When they finally accept themselves they will feel confident and not insecure anymore. The fear of not being accepted is the worst feeling ever and people just cannot deal with it. People be who others want them to be because they think that awful feeling will go away when in reality it just

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