Alex, I totally disagree with those emails and they are quite inaccurate and malicious. I understand that they are pulling hard to make me look bad in front of Deb and the judge. They can certainly ask Art and even Dr. Doris (Bella's Therapist referred by Art). Stacy has been reluctant and hesitant about participation in counseling and her behavior has been shown since day one. She claimed in our first meeting and several sessions with Art that "The trust would between us never be fixed and will always be broken". That is a strong statement and it is hard to work together and co-parent if someones have that mentality and point of view. I just wanted to let you know Alex that I also coach Bella's Basketball team for over two years and …show more content…
there were several games and practices that Stacy missed when Bella was under her custody and Art knows that. I had never made a huge deal out of it because I completely understand that things can occur.
Currently, I am not coaching basketball but I am looking to coach in the fall. In my opinion, we had made progress and we have come a long way in counseling, slowly but we had made progress. In my opinion, we had focused and discussed quite a bit about soccer and there are still several issues that I would like to share, perhaps I feel that we need to meet more often instead of once or twice a month. Also, I feel Stacy disposition for counseling has not been consistent. In our last meeting, she told Art that she was not going to come to counseling if the meetings would only be scheduled under her time of custody with Bella. I disagreed because for the most part the meetings had been scheduled on Fridays at 2:30 pm and Bella gets home around 4:15 pm. Furthermore, there had been two Saturdays that we met when Bella was under my custody. On 3/25/17 one of my scheduled Saturday's Stacy's totally did not show up for a session. She claimed she wrote down a different time and I totally understand that because things can occur. With that being said, I believed counseling needs to be a major piece and I am more than willing to keep trying to make this work for the sake of everyone especially
Bella. ---------------- In regards to the two allegations that were mentioned by her attorney. I would like to disclose my side of the story. Soccer game April 22nd. On April 22nd, we decided to skip Bella's soccer game due to the weather and her bad allergies. On the weekend and for the most part, Bella had three soccer games total (two games on Saturday and one game on Sunday). Again, Bella's allergies were bad even the night before the game. On top of that, it rained until 10:00 am, Bella is an asthmatic child. There were other soccer games from other leagues cancel on that day because of the weather. There was even a flood warning issued on that day (I have proof of all that). My mistake was not letting Stacy know ahead of time, perhaps the night before the game. I thought I texted Stacy at 10:00 am but the text message was never sent until 11:14 am before the game. Then later in the afternoon, I took her to her second game of the day. Her second game was indoor, she felt a lot better so we attended her second game. For the record, that was not Bella's last soccer game. That was her second to the last outdoor game. I apologize to Stacy in our counseling session because I should of let her know the day before the game and I didn't. I agreed with Stacy when it comes to Bella's inappropriate lying on this issue. I discussed this with Bella when I find out what She told Stacy "that we did not go because of our wedding anniversary". **For the record, we got married on June 22nd, 2013 and I told Bella that we were all going out of town to celebrate that as a family in June** Bella shared with me that she was afraid that her mom would punish her for not attending her game. In my opinion, this has to do a lot with Bella's anxiety and this is something that it has been going for quite some time. In the past Bella's she has been punished for not bringing her clothes back to her Mom, for trying to call me or text my phone, for asking to get more time with me, for calling me from her friend's house, for not lying when she was not sick and going with me on my custody time), etc.
The title of chapter one is called Introduction to Interpersonal communication. This chapter is mainly talking about interpersonal communication among materials that are very important to us such as interpersonal communication to our life, interpersonal communication and social media and interpersonal communication principles. They are many more that was talked about in the chapter put those three were the main thing that stood out to me. In this discussion paper, I am going to talk about the things that grab my attention while looking over my notes and by looking over my chapter. Those materials are the interpersonal communication to our life, interpersonal communication and social media and interpersonal communication competence.
In every society nonverbal communication is one of the most powerful tools that a person can use to interpret the message that is being delivered. Even though verbal communication is fairly straightforward, nonverbal communication allows others to sense the true emotions of the person that is expressing them. For example even though a person may say that they are not irritated, their usage of voice may display otherwise. Nonverbal communication not only reveals hidden messages, but it also complements, substitutes, and exaggerates verbal communication.
The general duties of this job is to make your team have a championship practice everyday when they step on the court you will know if they have a good practice or not. The special duties of being a coach is have lunch every time before a game or even have team bonding before the game but before the game you need to tell them that there will be no horse playing or goofing off or you will lose every game during that season that is why you need to get your head on right before the game. Coaches often work in the evenings and at weekends, especially during competitions. If you are coaching at a high level, you would usually work long hours. There are lots of opportunities for coaches to work part-time. You could work in a variety of places, including schools, health centres, private health clubs and sports clubs. Basketball season is not an all around sport it is seasonal and some coaches will work in the mornings with their team, or even in the day at like 12 or 1 o 'clock and some teams and coaches will practice at night team because it might be cooler in the gym. There are males and females that are coaching so because the females with coach the girls team and the males will sometimes work the girls
When my mother was of high school age (around 16 years old), she lived with her parents and six other siblings (D. Ta, personal communication, July 8, 2015). Her father, mother, four brothers, and two sisters were 48, 45, 22, 21, 21, 20, 18, and 16 years old, respectively (D. Ta, personal communication, July 8, 2015). They were all of Vietnamese descent and followed the religion of Buddhism; however, this did not play a major factor in their lives, as they were not devout followers who attended weekly lectures and listened to every single word spoken in the temple(s) (D. Ta, personal communication, July 8, 2015). On the other hand, the house I was living in when I was enrolled in high school consisted of my parents and two other siblings. My
During assessment I met with Steve, his mother, and the attendance counselor to assess the problem with attendance and discuss ways to encourage coming to school regularly. As the meeting concluded, a goal for increased attendance was set, in order for Steve to improve his academic grades. Throughout our initial meetings, Steve was closed off. Steve refused to express reasons for the issues at school. Brandell (2010) stated, “Adolescents often demonstrate resistance before and during the course of therapy because of their wish of autonomy and their fear that the therapist- an agency of the parents- will attempt to transform them…” (p. 141). This manifestation of refusal to mandated treatment in the preliminary stages of my work with Steve provided an opportunity to actively involve him in addressing the issue within a ‘safe enough space’. However, it became evident that Steve did not want to discuss poor attendance and behavioral issues because it caused him great dis...
In order to become a high school basketball coach you have to teach a class unless you’re a head director, so the class I chose is a speech class. And you must successfully pass each course and earn an 80% or above to receive the bronze level credential . As some schools possesses a comprehensive coaching education program and credential. It is used by 40 high school athletics associations, in whole or in part, to accredit coaches and is being used by a lot of school districts and other sports people choose to attend. People that are already coaching or plan on coaching are encouraged to take advantages of this certification opportunity.
This was a challenge because at times we have different perspectives on how to approach the situations and how to deliver services. Of course she has been working at this department a lot longer than I have, has more experience than me, and has known this client a lot longer than I have made it difficult for me to approach certain situations. Not to say that she was wrong or that I was wrong, but there was often times a difference of opinions. My schedule again interfered with daily staffing of the
This counselor met with Kayla and her mom, Monica on 6/8/18, to discuss her termination from the childcare center and to talk about how to proceed with her case.
I have been coaching and teaching for 10 years, and I am currently the head coach at Katy Taylor HS. I am a coach who likes to win, and I like to create a competitive environment for my players to get the best out of them. My main focus is developing your daughter into a well-rounded athlete and volleyball player for the next level.
The session was overall outstanding and I know Keni came out in a better place. Some points for improvement would be to add some more audible minimal encouragers. Not just shaking your head, but also adding sound to it I think would go a ways. In addition, I think going more in depth would be great. I remember a few instances that could have used a question like “why do you think that is” or something similar to try to go deeper. That being said, Keni I think wears her heart on her sleeves and does not need a ton of prodding to get deeper. Additionally, to help add clarity to some of the discussion Chelsea could ask for more details when Keni says something or describes what she is
I think the situation might cause Andrea to lose her sense of fulfillment with March of Dimes. I really feel the problem is caused by Stephanie. However, it appears Stephanie does not have the necessary communication skills to mend the relationship, then Andrea will have to step up. In this situation a professional working relationship is key. A genuine effort to get to know each other and learn personality types can increase effective communication. Andrea should get to know Stephanie’s management style and find out about her professional goals for March of Dimes Seattle. Challenging relationships really lack trust, which establishes a foundation for understanding. Any effort to improve the lines of communication can increase their relationship. Andrea taking the initiative to jump in and communicate looks good on her
You and I will disagree about a number of issues, we're used to that by now, surely. This is likely something we'll never be able to avoid and I'm getting used to that, what concerns me is that I don't think serenity has the capability or emotional strength to deal with our disagreements. Whether it's school or church or anything else, putting Serenity in the middle to communicate our thoughts about it to the other person is immensely unfair to Serenity as well as the other parent. She deserves some amount of freedom from our squabbles until you and I can work things out, one way or another. I'll do my best to keep any decisions or thoughts I have about her future to myself until
Please ensure that she returns to school with this letter signed by you and a proper regard for the safety of our other children. She must have a clear understanding of proper behavior.
When I was co-facilitating a mindfulness group at my internship I experienced a critical incident. One member of the group was pregnant due to being raped. The other members of the group were supportive of this member and empathetic of what she was going through. The pregnant member came to the first few group sessions and it was visible how stressed and frightened she was about her pregnancy. I am going to call the pregnant member of the group Ashley, her name has been changed to obscure any identifying information. A few groups in, Ashley was absent from the group due to her work schedule. During the session, other group members began to disclose that they didn't agree with how Ashley was taking care of herself during pregnancy. It was
Interpersonal communication is one of the significant skills while communicating with other individuals. It normally covers an extensive area and includes both verbal and non-verbal communication. Body language and facial expression may affect the accurateness of the message transmission directly. Interpersonal communication skills normally ensure that the message is sent and received correctly without any alteration thus improving the communication efficiency. Learning diverse aspects of interpersonal communication has greatly aided me in better understanding of what it consists. I am capable of applying the knowledge gained from this course to my personal experiences. This paper reflects on my personal experience in learning interpersonal communication.