Individuality In The Secret Life Of Bees

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Dr. Seuss, the legendary children’s author and illustrator, once said, “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind” (Psychology Today). Dr. Seuss is saying that people should be themselves no matter what, because anyone who cares about them will not attempt to stop them. Society is constantly showing people images of who they should be, rather than embracing the individuality of people. However, despite the constant pressuring of society, people need to learn to choose who they want to be and ignore anyone who says they can not be themselves. In The Secret Life of Bees, Sue Monk Kidd constantly brings up the theme of individuality in a society, expressing that people can rise …show more content…

In The Secret Life of Bees, an important part of Lily learning to make choices for herself is the people that she surrounds herself with and looks up to. The story is set in the 1960s, a decade filled with segregation and racism. When Lily runs away from home and T. Ray, she brings along Rosaleen, a black woman. Lily and Rosaleen then come across a gang of white men. When the men see Rosaleen, they begin hollering at her and trying to make her react. One of them yells, “Where’re you going, nigger?” (Kidd 31). Rosaleen walks over to them and pours her snuff on their feet, and as a result her and Lily are arrested. Rosaleen is protesting the way that she is treated because of her skin color. When Lily observes Rosaleen stand up to white supremacists, she is observing someone protest their set role in society. When Lily will be forced to make decisions for herself, she will be able to remember this moment and have …show more content…

In The Secret Life of Bees, the importance of storytelling is a theme that is brought up repeatedly. A significant story that Lily hears is the story of Our Lady of Chains, told to her by August. This story is about the spirit of Mary overtaking a black statue, and when a white man tries to put chains on the statue, Mary breaks the chains every time. This story is an analogy to society, Mary acting as mankind, the chains as the social laws that people are supposed to abide by, and the man chaining up the statue as society. The Daughters of Mary believe in the Spirit of Mary affecting each of their lives and decisions. When Lily observes this unique religion, she begins to trust in Mary as well, saying, “I live in a hive of darkness, and you are my mother, You are the mother of thousands” (Kidd 164). When Lily makes decisions, she will now be able to rely on Mary to help her break the chains that society is trying to put on her. August also tells Lily, “Our Lady is not some magical being out there somewhere like a fairy godmother. She’s not the statue in the parlor. She’s something inside of you” (Kidd 288). August tells Lily that the Spirit of Mary is inside her, constantly helping her make the right decisions. Lily is able to trust Mary to break the chains that society is trying to put on her. Not only does Lily hear important stories, she also

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