Ideal American Family

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Is the Ideal Family Attainable?
The ideal family of the 1950s and the real families of modern day America are completely different. Due to the consistent change is average living conditions, it is no longer possible to achieve the ideal American family. But just how attainable is this family in modern day times? Is it possible for the ideal families of the nineteen fifties to be considered ideal again, or are and real families of current day too diverse to achieve idealism? The ideal family of the 1950s and the real families of modern day America are practically facing opposite spectrums. Due to the consistent change in possible living conditions, it is no longer expected to achieve the ideal American family.
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If a couple have one child with each other, and then divorce, and then have more children with other spouses, along with embracing the children that those spouses already had previously as well, the original one-child-two-parent family has grown and grown. Families are increasing more as time goes by, and second and third-marriage parents are becoming more common. It has become ideal for first marriages to not last, and the same goes for the concept of the ideal family. Another reason for the decline of the ideal family is the increase in cost of living. The price of feeding oneself is on the rise, it is less likely that one would want to raise a family in the current economy. Modern day couples are aware of the economic situation, and for a lot of them, being financially unstable is not a comforting environment to add children to. With less couples choosing to have children, the less ideal families are …show more content…

There has not been the replacing of one dominant family arrangement with another. It has reformed into multiple varieties of family structures. The ideal 1950s family is not disappearing, current day families are just evolving into the ideal version of a family for the twenty-first century. So now it is almost as if, by not having an ideal family, Americans now have new have an ideal family. Contemporary families are all different, and that is what makes them more ideal. It is easier to adjust a family to its individual structural model than try to make them all the same. In the 1950s, the plan was to have a working father and a stay-at-home mother. Nowadays, thanks to the economy, most adults take what they can get when it comes to work agendas. The worsening economy has prompted an increasing number of parents to work jobs. If only the head male of the household was working, families would not be able to get by. Most families with two parents now have both of them working. Families with one parent have to work even more to strive in America. The ideal family has adapted the current economy when it comes to

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