I Am Not My Body By Lisa Sandin Summary

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We all look at magazines and wish on our hearts that we could look like those men and women. But welcome to reality because life… life is a little different. People these days seem to think that having the perfect body, and looking perfect is important. Of course there is nothing wrong with trying to look your best. But if you are ashamed or embarrassed just because you don’t look perfect, then this is the essay for you. “I am not my body” By Lisa Sandin. An inspiring story of how you are not your body. Yes I know that sounds confusing, but trust me it’s really great. She talks about when she was younger, she was born with reminiscent of a thalidomide defect. which means she was born with a short stum for an arm and …show more content…

Which mean that your body type does not define who you are. Do not be ashamed of your body, because your body is not who you are. Lisa thinks that too many women think they need the perfect skin, the big thigh gap, pretty eyes. There is more to you than just your body. You can tell that she is not lying because she Said things that were true like people looking at her and having pity on her. And the essay has more about her on the sides too. Lisa is very passionate about what she is standing for. She knows what it is like to not be perfect, she knows what it is like to be different, to get stares. She has learned to just smile through the hard times. Straight forward “I was taught to respect my body “. She was also taught to respect herself and other people, “even the thin, able-bodied, beautiful ones.” Her style of writing is very effective on the readers. It flowed nicely and she had a lot of good points. It was not to hard to follow along, because she used writing that a girl like my age could read. I think the writer wanted girls of all ages to read the essay. The author made some good points here are just a

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