Homosexuals’ Rights on Raising Children

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Gay parents will raise their children to become gay as well; Every child deserves a mother and a father; being gay is an abomination, to which I would respond that leaving a child to grow up in an orphanage where nobody wants him/her might be an even greater act of profanity; these are all comments that have been said by dozens of people who believe that gays should not have the right to adopt children. Repudiating gay adoption is not only denying gays the right to start a family of their own, but also depriving children the right to have an actual family instead of living in an orphanage or a foster home. In addition, taking away these rights immensely decreases the chances of innocent children having two loving parents, same sex or not. Therefore, homosexuals are no different than heterosexuals when it comes to adopting and raising children. Out of fifty states, only sixteen states allow gay adoptions while people in the other thirty-four states are either denied or sent to court to be determined by a complete stranger with no background information on the couple, whether or not they can take care of a child or not. According to “LGBT Adoption Statistics”, in 2012, 110,000 adopted children live with gay parents. Of the total amount of children in U.S. households, less than one percent lives with same-sex parents. If homosexuals were allowed to adopt, that one percent would rapidly increase. Sexual orientation of parents is not important when it comes to raising children; how the children are being raised and how the parents work together is what is truly important. One of the many issues that homophobic people have against homosexuals is that being brought up in an “untraditional” home is not good for the children. There have... ... middle of paper ... ...nvironment instead of a temporary foster home or orphanage. Children would get the love they deserve and gays would get the family they deserve. Being different is always a bad thing; you can’t help who you love so why be punished for it? Works Cited "LGBT Adoption Statistics." LGBT Adoption. N.p., n.d. Web. 05 May 2014. Miller, Amy. "JURIST - In the Best Interest of the Child: Arguing For LGBT Adoption Rights in Nebraska." N the Best Interest of the Child: Arguing For LGBT Adoption Rights in Nebraska. JURIST - Sidebar, 26 Sept. 2013. Web. 05 May 2014. Munsey, C. "Adopted Children Thrive in Same-sex Households, Study Shows." Http://www.apa.org. American Psychological Association, Oct. 2010. Web. 04 May 2014. Wolpert, Stuart. "Foster Kids Do Equally Well When Adopted by Gay, Lesbian or Heterosexual Parents." Newsroom. UCLA Newsroom, 18 Oct. 2012. Web. 05 May 2014.

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