Homosexaul Adoption

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When we are born, we are told what is normal and what is abnormal, normal is a family with husband and wife but abnormal is for example a family with two women or two men. Adoption for a heterosexual couple is not something that is very hard to do but when it is a homosexual couple, it is made hard because in some people eyes it is not right. What I think is that if a child can get two parents no matter the sex and they are loved unconditionally and are treated correctly then it is okay for a homosexual or heterosexual to adopt. “What is most important is love. A homosexual couple can give much love to a child, sometimes even more than a heterosexual couple. (Subulica)”
Adoption Statistics have argued that homosexuals raised children will find it more challenging to learn suitable gender roles in the absence of male and female roles. However, I think these children will not be entirely withdrawn of models from the opposite sex to their parents'. They will still have contact with grandparents, teachers, and friends. If a homosexual family can give the same love that, a heterosexual family can give to a child then why not let them adopt and go through the same process that a regular family will go through. They should not have extended out waits trying to complete the family they are trying to have. Everybody deserves to be happy with their sexuality and not be discouraged on how they want to live there life by not being able to adopt.
Banning gay men and lesbians from becoming 'parents' is prejudice, based on sexual orientation, which would not be satisfactory in other circumstances such as employment. Certain states allow the right of gay adoption and other does not. In the state of Kansas Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender...

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...sed about it because now there is a lot more homosexuals in the world so you are not surprised like you would have been years ago. Just face it, it is becoming a normal thing and that homosexuals should have the right to have a happy family and a child to call their own just like any other family. Leave them alone and the let them live life as if you are doing with your family not bothering anybody. “What is most important is love. A homosexual couple can give much love to a child, sometimes even more than a heterosexual couple” (Subulica).

Works Cited

Bernheim, Gilles. The Chief Rabbi of France says what we often forget to say. n.d March 2013. web. 4 November 2013.
LifeLong Adoption. "LGBT Adoption Statistics." n.d. LifeLong Adoptions. Web. 9 November 2013.
Subulica, Ina. This House believes homosexuals should be able to adopt. 26 January 2012. 4 November 2013.

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