Hardships

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Every individual must face hardships in order to grow as a person. The ability of having to face these hardships is key to a person’s life, as it helps them understand what life is truly about. Life is a funny thing, as you never know what will happen but always hope for the best. Survival of the fittest is all about facing off with the best. Only through hardships will someone know how to face and learn from them again. One must go through moments where they are struggling to remain who they are, so that they can begin to realize that not everything or even anything in life comes easy or handed to you. In the prose Always Looking Up by Michael J. Fox, The Grapes of Wrath written John Steinbeck and Blue Jasmine produced by Woody Allen are all examples as to why facing hardships is an inevitable struggle.

The author, Michael J. Fox explains to us that if he took away all of the problems that his children had to face, that he would be doing them a huge disservice because he would be taking away a crucial part of how his children should grow. He explains how you "can't take away [a] child's pain" but to love your child with everything you have. Parents want whats best for their children and will do whatever they can to make that happen. They want to be in their childs life every step of the way but sometimes parents must take that step back, in order for their child to develop into the person they desire to be. If parents constantly did and handled everything for their child, they would never understand the reality that the world holds, and that one day they would have to. In order for one to grow, they must be pushed to their limits through hardships so that life can teach them how much they are capable of. Almost all individua...

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...ench. Not only does she become insane, but she faces it all alone as she leaves her sisters house, becoming homeless once again. Jasmine never learns how to grow through what she is facing in order to get out, as she has been so damaged from her past, which leads her into losing herself. An individual must understand that nothing in life comes easy, and anything can happen thoughtout ones life, but nothing will get better if a person doesn't percevere through it.

In the end in order to achieve success within an individual's life, and become the person one would like to be, you have to go through tough times to become a tough person. Nobody wants to go through pain but in the end that is what defines a person and shapes who they are. An individual can only learn how to grow and flourish through life once they have been faced with hardships that they have defeated.

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