Society in the U.S. has evolved immensely over the past century. With this evolution there has been a redefinition of what gender and gender roles are and this redefinition has influenced a change in the common structure of families and marriages in the U.S.
Among the many social changes that have occurred in the U.S. there have been many changes for Women. Women in today’s society are more independent and have more authority than previously. Men and women have become much more equal and these changes in society had a lot to do with the World Wars. As soldiers went off to war, women took over the jobs that they left behind. Women could now support themselves independently. As divorce became more acceptable and more common there were more female led households. This has changed the gender roles for women in the U.S., now not only are women domestic but they can be the breadwinners of their households. It is clearly evident that the change in the gender roles for women has influenced a change in families and marriage through the way women have more independence from their counter parts and how they have more authority within the family.
Along with a change in gender role for women over the past century there has been a change in the idea of gender and sexuality. The acceptance of sexual orientations besides heterosexuality has led to a major change in marriages and family. A factor in this acceptance has been the media. There have been quite a few shows with homosexual and transgender characters. The media has influenced many people to fight for certain legal rights for homosexual people. This has led to same-sex marriages being legalized in some states. Now there are many marriages in the U.S. comprised of homosexual people. Alon...
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... because now there are many same-sex marriages as it has been legalized in some states and also the way families are made up now, whether it is a single mother leading the household or a gay couple who has adopted children. It is crazy how fast the U.S. has changed over the past century.
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Is there a difference between gender and sex? Yes, sex is the biological difference between males and females as in their genitalia. Gender is more often defined to be the role of a male or female in society or the perspective of themselves. Gender roles tend to vary from race to race but have the same basic denotation. Macbeth by William Shakespeare and Freedom Writers by Erin Gruwell both exploit stereotypes of gender roles. Society builds the idea of gender roles to be completely opposite of each other. Males are seen to be the protector, provider, and cold-blooded ones. While women are viewed to be the compassionate one, the supportive one, and the affectionate one.