Analyzing The Essay 'I Want A Wife'

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Unfair ? Gender Inequality: Gender inequality refers to unequal treatment or perceptions of individuals wholly or partly due to their gender. It arises from differences in (arguably socially constructed) gender roles. In the essay ”I Want A Wife” written in a feminist's perspective and the essay emphasis the point of the ideal wife's roles and unfair compound to a husband, it shows a difference between both showing inequality of the of roles between a wife and a husband. Simliarly hold the same judgement as the author with the topic gender equality. Since many women out there still face sexism and gender equality even here in Canada many women still do . Many things I have experienced or heard of second hand that women are take the roles …show more content…

Which many women still to this day still don't have a voice even after a very long time of gender roles . The sad part is,it still exist today,

In many relationships many women must take on the role as a breadwinner and a housemaid. It is usually because of the family income problems but most of the time use if the men in the relationship. Working and being an house maid isn't that easy to do. .An example shown in the text is that the author shows through the literary device :repetition ,that men have many expectations for women such as doing both house chores and going to work. “I want a wife who will go to work and send me to school. And while I am going to school I want a wife to take care of my children.”(Syfers.03) Many women are expected to take on all the roles by themselves, and leave the men to either just …show more content…

In the essay the author explains the different type of scenarios that come up with being his ideal wife through social activities. Such as planning social nights with his friends, keeping track of when the characters kids have to go to extra curricular activities, when she cannot disturb him and his friends when they're over and etc. I the book it states “take care of details of my social life….who will have the house clean,will prepare a special meal,serve it to me and my friends, and not interrupt when I talk about things that interest me and my friends.”(Syfers Para 6) A connection I could make through another text I am reading is from the book call “A Thousand Splendid Suns” where the main character in the first part of the story Mariam a 15 year old girl, gets married to a 45 year old men because that was acceptable in that time, she gets pregnant when the man rapes her. When her husband found out he was very happy about it, and he asked his friends to come over. Mariam had to do all the housework and food was ready for them before the came over. She knew that she could not come downstairs because during a Eid, a celebration in Islam culture , she was not allowed to come downstairs.”When a knock came,Mariam knew to go upstairs and to her room and close the door. Rasheed had told Mariam that she was

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