Forgiveness In The Secret Life Of Bees

“The Importance of Forgiveness” Martin Luther King Jr. once said, “We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies.” Forgiveness is a necessary attribute that everyone must acquire as they grow and mature. Lily Owens, the protagonist in The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd, exemplifies the need to forgive in order to find inner peace. Lily suffers many hardships and difficulties as she ages due to the faults and flaws of the people who surround her. Throughout the novel, Lily must learn how to forgive, accept, and love herself and

She knows her mother has a history there and she hopes to bring herself closer to her. Lily carries with her three of her mother’s old belongings, the most important of these belongings being a small statue of the Black Madonna. The Black Madonna is a recurring symbol of hope and guidance for Lily, leading her down the path to inner peace.

During her travels, Lily stumbles across the bright pink Boatwright house. Looking for a place to stay and food to eat, Lily and Rosaleen knock on the front door. This moment is the starting point of Lily’s healing process. The girls meet August Boatwright and her sisters, June and May. August allows Lily and Rosaleen to stay with them for as long as they need in turn for help keeping the bees. Here, Lily learns all about honey and its healing powers:

“We lived for honey. We swallowed a spoonful in the morning to wake us up and one at night to put us to sleep. We took it with every meal to calm the mind, give us stamina, and prevent fatal disease. We swabbed ourselves in it to disinfect cuts or heal chapped lips” (Kidd

Over the course of several months, August guides, teaches, and helps Lily to accept and forgive herself. August once knew Deborah, and she knows that Lily is her daughter, but she does not confront Lily about the issue. Instead, she waits until Lily puts the puzzle pieces together and discovers for herself the relationship between her mother and August. August knows she is not ready to learn the truth about her mother when she and Lily first meet, so she waits for Lily to come to her. When Lily finally realizes the truth, she comes to August and they have a long discussion about Deborah. During this discussion, Lily learns the truth about her mother; that her mother only married T. Ray because she was pregnant with Lily, then after several years she had enough of living and dealing with T. Ray, so she left. Lily is disgusted by the fact that her mother would've done something like this, she did not want to let go of the romantic image of her mother she had painted in her mind (“‘The Secret Life of Bees’ Themes and Symbols of The Secret Life of Bees). Lily struggles to stomach the fact the her mother truly did leave her and she spends some time feeling hurt and angry, but one day, August shows her a picture of Lily and her mother. As Lily looks at the picture she is comforted and thinks, “May must’ve made it to heaven and explained to my mother about the sign I wanted. The one that would let me know I was loved” (Kidd 276). Seeing