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Forgiveness and its effects
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Forgive But Never Forget - Personal Narrative
There he was standing in the doorway of our house, a stranger to my
mother and I, his shadow looming over me. His face, distraught and
lonely, faced my mother who sat there crying on her chair as she had
done for many nights for many years. In his right hand a black worn
suitcase with a 'RAF' badge on it, in his other a briefcase. A black
hat was trapped beneath his armpit. He was a well-dressed man with a
pitch-black suit without one crease in it, a matching tie and a pearl
white shirt underneath. A tear now ran down his face too. I looked
from behind my bedroom door, I had opened it just enough to see him,
but not enough for him to notice me. I had been expecting this day for
quite some time.
Ten years ago.
I was six years old and living in an old house cottage hidden away in
the countryside, I can remember each day as if it were yesterday;
everyday seemed to be a bright summer morning, with a golden haze
surrounding my house and a lovely scent of the surrounding trees
filling it. My mother and father both happily married, my mother was
twenty-three and my father twenty-five. We were the perfect family.
The only thing seemed imperfect in our lives, was the rising power of
a new German dictatorship, led by an unknown politician called Adolph
Hitler. But I was much too young to have realised who or what this
politician was.
I only remember two significant incidents that year…
"Mama, what are you doing?"
"Shhhh," she whispered, "Listen!"
She turned the volume of the radio up and listened intensely,
"I am speaking to you from the Cabinet Room at 10 Downing Street....
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...chair and told me
about my father, how he didn't go off with another girl but just went
off to serve his country. This came as a bit of a shock to me
"Is he dead?"
"I don't know, but he hasn't sent me a letter in two years."
"Haven't you tried to find out where he was stationed?"
"No one would tell me. They said it would compromise his safety!"
"The war is over now. You can find him, oh please try mum!" She looked
at me and then smiled. The next day she went down to the nearest army
station to find out where he was, they handed her an address for her
to be able to send a letter to him, and that's what she did. She sent
him a plead to come home."
Present day.
So there he was standing in the doorway of our house, a stranger to my
mother and me. He was a long forgotten memory of what life used to be.
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