Fitting In or Not Standing Out

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Adolescent teens worry about not fitting in. Most teens will do almost anything to feel apart of a group. Others, just try to not stand out. These kids will just blend in with the crowd and go with the flow. I feel as if teens worry more about fitting in than standing out. Adolescence is all about teenagers trying to fit in. Adolescent teens spend most of their time worrying about their appearance and how they act to try to fit in with others. Most of them on things that they, “like,” just to be accepted by others. Many teens, compare themselves to each other and they really shouldn’t do that. I know that most teenagers try to fit in with the group, but they should really just have fun and be themselves. Sometimes, teens will try to act as if they are apart of a higher social class than what their family is, when in reality, they are both in the same social structure. For example, in the documentary, (People Like Us), Tammy’s son, Matt, try’s to make himself look cooler at school so he can fit in and not be apart of his family’s social class. Kids should not do this. They should ju...

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