Feeling Death in The Things They Carried by Tim O’Brien

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War is often thought about as something that hardens a soldier. It makes a person stronger emotionally because they are taught not show it and deal with it internally. People say that death in war is easier to handle because it is for the right reasons and a person can distance themselves from the pain of losing someone. However, there is always a point when the pain becomes too real and it is hard to maintain that distance. In doing so, the story disputes the idea that witnessing a traumatic event causes a numbing or blockage of feelings. Rat Kiley’s progression of sentiment began with an initial concern for the buffalo, transforming into an irate killing of the animal, and then ending with an ultimate acceptance of death. These outward displays of feeling suggested that witnessing the death of a close friend caused him to become emotionally involved in the war.

When the buffalo was originally taken in, Rat had a soft and nurturing mind-set towards the buffalo. He displayed his affection by stroking the nose of the buffalo and offering food, which seemed like a natural and normal response to do to animal that had just been taken in. In a way, Rat was trying to make the buffalo a pet and use it to replace Curt as a friend. However, to most people, this was uncharacteristic of the typical soldier. The classic soldier was viewed as being callous and uncaring. By Rat displaying this type of amiable characteristic, it went against the ideology of how a soldier reacts to war. A soldier should maintain distant from the war and just do the job that he was given without showing emotion. However, the simple fact that Rat showed any sentiment at all proposed that death evokes feelings because his friend just died and he was abl...

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...expression of his emotion, it made the situation more bearable. It allowed others to accept that he was cruel to the buffalo because he was displacing his own hurt and pain upon the buffalo. People are more likely to sympathize more with Rat if they understand that he is also suffering. The story shed light on how much war truly affects soldiers. It showed how a soldier does not always have to be this detached, pokerfaced person that holds all sentiment in and that it is natural for a person to display his feelings, even though it might not be accepted by others right away. Ultimately, the story revealed that the effects of trauma do not always lead to a complete avoidance and blockage of feeling. Instead, trauma can induce an outward exhibition of emotions.

Works Cited

O’Brien, Tim. The Things They Carried. Boston: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2009. Print.

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