Family Cbt Worksheet

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In the use of family CBT, the presumption is made that an individual family member’s thoughts and behaviors impacts the other family member and results in adoption of similar thoughts and behaviors throughout their lives (Nichols, 2014; Epstein, 2002). The social worker identified a presenting issue between the couple regarding a prenuptial agreement. Further, noting that Bob recently adopted negative thoughts surrounding the intentions of Edith and the relationship. The conflict surrounding the prenuptial agreement had not previously existed. In CBT it is essential to identify the negative thoughts and then explore the underlying irrational ideas behind these thoughts. CBT assessment evaluates how the individual’s environment and those interactions …show more content…

The A-B-C worksheet assists in identifying the reason for onset of the problem or activating event, beliefs and thoughts associated, and emotions and behavior accompanied or resulting from the thoughts. The worksheet is then used by the social worker to begin challenging the negative distortions. This tool helps build awareness of our thoughts and how the thoughts make one feel and behave. Two versions of the worksheet were administered. Stanley and Bob completed one together around the problem, here the idea of prenuptial agreement and Edith’s intentions. The mannerism in which this worksheet is completed assists in comparing each other's emotions and behavior regarding the same thought process. Tools provide a broader insight into the individual viewpoint of each member and first steps in initiating change (Dattilio & Bevilacqua, …show more content…

They wanted to be open to addressing Bob’s concerns about the impending marriage while also expressing their own opinions about a prenuptial agreement. Due to their age and preconceived notions about prenuptial agreements, Edith and Stanley did not feel it was necessary to sign one. Many individuals may also value these same beliefs and feel that a prenuptial agreement may lead to uncertainty about the marriage or feel it is not necessary because they do not plan on divorcing (Mahar, 2003). Edith and Stanley felt that through a family therapy session they may explain their feelings to Bob and have him understand that not every marriage ends in divorce especially due to the couple’s age. Bob was also motivated to attend the session and attempt to express his

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