Examples Of Personal Dilemmas

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The greatest personal dilemma that I have ever struggled with was a pursuing a relationship with a girl despite my religion’s strict forbidding of dating. My religion, Islam, only permits dating in the presence of one of either parents of the couple. This way, physical and verbal interaction would be appropriate. I fell in love with this girl my freshmen and I was with her till October of my senior year. To resolve this situation I told my parents about it one month into it. My religious guilt seems to be linked with my parents’ approval so if they knew about my sins, I somehow felt better. They forbid me from continuing the relationship because of the war between our country and her country.
I made believe that I agreed with them. Secretly, however, I continued to see this girl for three years. This built more guilt on me and eventually I had to …show more content…

Well, the way I perceived the situation is what led to me having certain emotions. Looking at a beautiful girl and trying to think without using emotion was almost impossible for me. I have heard people describe this as thinking with your heart instead of your mind. Regardless of the complicated emotions we went through, I think it is safe to say that my “heart” loved her. Regarding thinking with different parts that make up a person, Bordo mentions Descartes’s theory of prejudice. Descartes seems to think that what stands in the way of “clear and distinct perception” is prejudice (Bordo, 681). Bordo further breaks this down a little further to prejudice of “seeing” with one’s body rather than one’s mind” (Bordo 681). This completely applies to me as I didn’t use reason in my romantic relationship. Bordo, however, believes that the body is just as important as the mind. She believes Descartes is misunderstood in his claims (Bordo

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