“Fortunate in living in a day when practically every restraint is removed that could repress a girl’s happy spirit or handicap her progress,” said by Nellie Ross in Motherhood True Mission Of Woman, Says Nellie Ross. At the beginning of the 1920’s, it's safe to say that patriarchy was carried over from the Victorian time period, and what one would say was a social norm. Social norms in this decade were very stereotypical, and some can argue sexiest. Men were the ones to make money, and women were the ones to stay at home, and do all the housework that needed to be done. If women didn't conform to these norms they we're judged, or an outcast. Being married in the 1920’s, was a pretty high standard, that most people tried to follow. Everyone …show more content…
Many people would go to Gatsby’s parties to have a good time, and this is where the cheating would take place because people were under the influence and wanted to live life to the fullest; even though this isn’t the right way to do it. After Gatsby’s party many people were fighting because their significant other had found out about what they had done at the party, or what they were doing. Wilson and Myrtle’s marriage started to fail once Wilson found out that Myrtle was cheating on him with Tom Buchanan. “Wilson? He thinks she goes to see her sister in New York.”(Fitzgerald 26) This is said by Tom and it shows the readers that when the spouses were cheating they were very sneaky about what they were doing. Tom and Daisy are also another couple that both cheat on each other, throughout The Great Gatsby. Tom has been cheating on Daisy throughout their marriage with Myrtle, which is Wilson’s wife. Tom is very rude to Daisy during the beginning of this book, and doesn’t seem to show too much affection towards her. Daisy and Gatsby meetup again, and try to rekindle their love that they used to have before he went to war. “Gatsby doesn’t want her to know. You’re just supposed to invite her over for tea” (Fitzgerald 79). Gatsby was afraid of being denied, so he wouldn’t bluntly ask Daisy to meetup with him again. Daisy cheated on Tom because even though, as we were told, she and Gatsby weren’t sleeping together, though some could inquire they were, it is still cheating because she is married to Tom. Tom and Myrtle also have something going on. This is causing Myrtle to cheat on her husband when he husband has done nothing wrong, and has stayed loyal to Myrtle. In The Great Gatsby Fitzgerald shows how marriages started to decline because of how reckless people were living, and how they always had the “I don’t care”
Cheating in a relationship is a form of dishonesty, and is frequently found in The Great Gatsby. One such example is the marital bond between George and Myrtle Wilson. Myrtle Wilson was not happy in her marriage with George. Evidence of this can be found on page 35, “The only crazy I was was when I married [George].” The person she really loves is her first sweetheart, Tom Wilson. This quote from page 35 and Tom’s reaction when Myrtle died depict this quite clearly, “And Tom’s the first sweetie she ever had.” It becomes quite apparent that she is cheating on Mr. Wilson with someone on page 124, “’I just got wised up to something funny the last two days,’ remarked Wilson. ‘That’s why I want to get away. That’s why I been bothering you about the car.’” Her dishonesty in marriage not only drove her husband to the point of insanity, but also caused her own death on page 137, “Where Myrtle Wilson, her life violently extinguished, knelt in the road and mingled her thick dark blood with the dust.” If Myrtle had never cheated on George, the events that lead to her death would never have taken place. Even if she no longer loved George, it would probably have been beneficial for her to take a more honest path in leaving him. Mrs. Wilson was not the only one cheating on her husband in The Grea...
Daisy knows very well that tom is cheating on her, but doesn’t care because it's more convenient to stay in her unhappy marriage. Even though she wants to be with Gatsby, she wants to keep her social status and being with Tom makes this all the easier. Now, this is quite the opposite of Myrtle. She has a loving husband who would do anything for her, but her social status is all she cares about. Myrtle is willing to hurt George and ruin their marriage in order to climb up the social ladder. Neither of these women have respect for themselves. Both Daisy and Myrtle allow Tom to treat them
A lot of characters in the book lie, cheat, and try to get wealthy. They didn’t realize that they were loosing themselves in their lies. In conclusion secrets can have away of coming out in the end and hurting the people who keep them as well as the people around them. They all kept secrets and once they came out it hurt them emotionally and physically. Daisy kept her relationship with Gatsby a secret away from Tom and Myrtle keeping her secret relationship with Tom away from her husband. That all added up in the end and helped result in the death of Myrtle and the death of Gatsby.
With the increasing popularity of female-oriented post-secondary education, the growing number of women working outside the home in professional occupations and the newly granted right to suffrage, women directly challenged the traditional notions of American Womanhood in the 1920’s. In just seventy one years since the Seneca Falls Convention, feminists in America accomplished sweeping changes for women politically, economically, and socially. Attempting to reconcile the changing concept of womanhood with more traditional female roles, male writers often included depictions of this “New Woman” in their novels. Frequently, the male writers of the Progressive Era saw the New Woman as challenging the very fabric of society and, subsequently, included
Tom Buchanan and George Wilson have plenty in common with their attitude pertaining towards women in F. Scott Fitzgerald’s novel The Great Gatsby. Fitzgerald throughout the entire novel gives the audience an insight on his thoughts about the nature of man. Fitzgerald portrays men often treating women harshly throughout his novel. For example, there are many violent acts towards women, a constant presence of dominance, and also ironically Tom and Georges over reactions to being cheated on.
Tom wanted the "possession" of Myrtle, Myrtle wanted Tom's "luxuries and wealth," and Daisy wanted Gatsby simply for his wealth. Both Tom and Daisy know each other's affairs, but neither one truly cares. As the story progresses, it seems as though each of them is trying to make the other jealous. Honesty and Love, two words known only by the faithful, George Wilson. George certainly had his flaws, but he loved his wife dearly and couldn't live without her. "He was his wife's man and not his own." When he became aware of Tom and Myrtle's affair, he was "really sick, pale as his own pale hair and shaking all over." He locked her up in fear that she would run away with Tom forever.
During the 1920’s, the role women had under men was making a drastic change, and it is shown in The Great Gatsby by two of the main female characters: Daisy and Jordan. One was domesticated and immobile while the other was not. Both of them portray different and important characteristics of the normal woman growing up in the 1920’s. The image of the woman was changing along with morals. Females began to challenge the government and the society. Things like this upset people, especially the men. The men were upset because this showed that they were losing their long-term dominance over the female society.
To have a strong American Dream, there must be a fear of failure. In both works, failure is defined as losing manhood, and success is equated with being the “ideal male”. The American Dream becomes an extension of masculinity attained through material possessions, work ethic, and status. Manhood is represented by the determination, achievement, and accomplishment, which makes failure more threatening as it equates to the destruction of the individual rather than his goals. Fear is another motivation which turns the struggles for greatness very personal for the cast. The theme of the film is based on antiquated concept that males are supposed to protect and provide for women; therefore, failing to succeed becomes a threat to the male’s domestic
The book The Great Gatsby written by F. Scott Fitzgerald is full of fake love, unstable relationships, and most of all, infidelity. From very early in this book, we see the infidelity in Tom and Daisy's marriage. We see Nick Carraway, Jordan Baker, Daisy Buchanan and her husband, Tom, at dinner while Daisy is talking to Nick about where he’s living now and how his life is going. Tom abruptly gets up and leaves the table to answer the phone call that interrupted their dinner together. Daisy is quick to follow behind Tom to the phone. Nick finds this call harmless nonetheless while Jordan informs him that there was a scandal going on that she thought everyone knew about. “The fact that he had one [a mistress]
Gender Roles: In some respects, Fitzgerald writes about gender roles in a quite conservative manner. In his novel, men work to earn money for the maintenance of the women. Men are dominant over women, especially in the case of Tom, who asserts his physical strength to subdue them. The only hint of a role reversal is in the pair of Nick and Jordan. Jordan's androgynous name and cool, collected style masculinize her more than any other female character. However, in the end, Nick does exert his dominance over her by ending the relationship. The women in the novel are an interesting group, because they do not divide into the traditional groups of Mary Magdalene and Madonna figures, instead, none of them are pure. Myrtle is the most obviously sensual, but the fact that Jordan and Daisy wear white dresses only highlights their corruption.
From the start of the book we can see that women in the book are
At first they were both in denial that their wives had cheated on them. After awhile, Tom and George hated Gatsby because they had reasons to believe that Gatsby was the man Daisy and Myrtle had an affair with. They wanted Gatsby gone from their lives, But George had gone farther than Tom to do that.George went crazy. He locked Myrtle up in a room in their home and he was planning to move. But after Myrtle died Tom gave him the thought Gatsby killed her, so he found Gatsby and killed him. Then he killed himself after. Tom reacted differently; he found dirt on Gatsby so Daisy would not want to be with him. Also he told George that Gatsby was the one who killed and had the affair with Myrtle because he thought Tom killed her. But then he put the blame on Gatsby so George would do something about it. “That yellow car I was driving this afternoon wasn’t mine-do you hear?” (141). Which made George to want to kill kill Gatsby. So Tom got George to do his dirty work for him and got Gatsby out of the
Laura Mulvey, film theorist, is quoted as saying, “Women, in any fully human form, have almost completely been left out of film.” The study of gender representation in cinema began in the 1970s with women like Molly Haskell and Mulvey. Theorists found that there was an abundance of the male who successfully ran the narrative, while the female was there only for the “visual pleasure” of the male, thus coining the male gaze. 1974 gave birth to two blonde, vapid Daisies on the silver screen, both presented for eyes of the men around them: Daisy Miller, from Henry James novella, and Daisy Buchanan, from F. Scott Fitzgerald’s The Great Gatsby. Peter Bogdanovich’s film adaptation of James’s Daisy Miller (1878) is a mix of comedy and sadness,
‘’I would be quite satisfied if my novels did no more than teach my readers that their past was not one long night of savagery from which the first Europeans acting on God’s behalf delivered them’’. ( Morning yet) Chinua Achebe wrote stories so that people would get knowledge out of it. That being said him making Things Fall Apart was not for entertainment, but it showed us the gender-role of males in females at the time. Males are the focus of my research, there is two great protagonists that will be discussed in this paper Okonkwo and Jay Gatsby. How does the characterization of men and their role in society in the Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald compare to Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe in terms of success, failure and mindset.
Daisy’s relationship with Tom was not a loving marriage it was an abusive, superficial act to benefit both parties. Their relationship problems began before they were even married; on the night of Daisy and Tom’s wedding, Daisy received a note from Gatsby so she threw a fit wanting to call off the wedding. “She groped around in a wastebasket she had on the bed and pulled out the string of the pearls. “Take ‘em down-stairs and give ‘em back to whoever they belong to. Tell ‘em all Daisy’s change’ her mind. Say: “Daisy change’ her mind!” (Fitzgerald 76) Daisy married Tom knowing she was still in love with Gatsby. Why would someone drag one of their old lovers into their new marriage? Daisy was too selfish to be honest with Tom and not marry him knowing she wanted to be with someone else. Daisy was not honest with her husband either when she began seeing Gatsby. This was the real start to when Daisy’s decisions lead to the death of Myrtle Wilson and Jay Gatsby. Daisy would sneak over to Gatsby’s house and see him behind Tom’s back. “I wanted somebody who wouldn’t gossip. Daisy comes over quite often- in the afternoons.” (Fitzgerald 114) When Daisy began seeing Gatsby there was an obvious change in Tom but Daisy never thought to address it. “Who is this Gatsby anyhow?” demanded Tom suddenly. “Some big bootlegger?” (Fitzgerald 106) If Daisy had taken the time to make her affair less obvious or to