Examples Of Dysfunctional Family In The Glass Castle

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There is no such thing as being ‘the perfect family’. Every family is unique and different in their own ways. They have their troubles, struggles, and weaknesses in their lives. The novel, The Glass Castle: a memoir by Jeannette Walls share the theme of a dysfunctional family. Firstly, the parent of the main character, Rose Walls is not an ideal motherly figure to her children. Secondly, the Walls children are not being treated the way they should be for their age. Finally, the parent of the lead character, Rex Walls is not a role model of a fatherly figure to his kids. When the family acts in a dysfunctional way it affects each individual and the family negatively. Rose Walls is the opposite of how a mother should be to her children because …show more content…

And at times like these, self-esteem is even more vital than food’" (Walls 186). Rose Walls is indicating that she is a self-centered and selfish person who despises the idea of nurturing her children. The Walls children are the ones who found the diamond ring and they give it to their mother thinking they could use the ring to pay off the house and buy food. Instead Rose wears it as a replacement for her old wedding ring. Her decision to keep the diamond ring instead of helping her family, shows that her first priority is not the children, but herself. It affects the children because they cannot use the diamond ring to buy anything needed for themselves. On the first day of her job, the kids tried to get her out of …show more content…

On Christmas day, Jeannette’s "Dad... thrust the lighter into the Douglas fir. The dried-out needles caught fire immediately... [They] were able to put the fire out, but only by knocking down the tree, smashing most of the ornaments, and ruining all [their] presents" (115). Rex has a drinking problem and it affects his social behaviour towards his family members. The Walls children and their mother’s plan Christmas for weeks to be the best, but Rex ruins and wrecks everything and they couldn't celebrate Christmas together. His alcoholism often makes him incapable of holding his deals of sufficiency. He is a bitter rampaging drunk and threatens anyone who gets in his way. He destroys everything when he is upset and drunk. His drinking caused him to become violent and a cold person. He gets drunk every chance he gets and takes his weakness out of his family. Jeannette says "... why can't you act like a dad" (220). Jeanette despises her father because he does not support his family by earning money or going to work. The Walls children realize how their father is not like anyone else's. Rex is unable to and struggles to provide them with food and sometimes shelter. He is mostly jobless and does not have the cash. Rex goes out to gamble to get money and then spends it at bars to drink. He lacks responsibility and does not have a stable job to support his family. His

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