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There have been two events that have significantly influenced me to be the person I am today. The initial event was my parent’s divorce. The actual divorce didn’t impact me immensely. What affected me tremendously was whom my dad decided to get married to later on. The second event that influenced my life was attending church. When my parent’s divorced it didn’t bother me too much in the beginning. My dad received custody of me and he was the parent that allowed me to do whatever I wished, so I saw the arrangement as satisfactory. I saw my mom every other weekend. This agreement suited me just fine until my dad remarried. My dad got remarried when I was in 3rd grade. His new wife appeared decent enough in the beginning, but as time went on I began to disapprove of her. She had two daughters; both were older than I was. My stepmom never thought of my brother and I as equals when her children were involved. Her children were always placed above us. One of her daughters, Dayna, was only a couple years older than me, so I tried getting along with her. One day I was playing cards with her in her room. When her mom saw me she told me to get out of Dayna’s room for no reason. …show more content…
Every time I attempted to be friendly to Dayna her mother would make rude remarks at me. Since my stepmom was so cruel I began wishing I could live with my mom, but my dad constantly told me that was never going to happen. In those stressful times I prayed even though I didn’t have a considerable amount of knowledge about God. Finally, after two drawn out years, they got divorced.
For the next couple of years afterward I lived in an apartment with my brother and dad. In sixth grade my dad met Donna. Donna has now been my stepmom for approximately five years. She is thankfully about 100 times better than my last stepmom. Back in 8th grade is where my second major event in my life occurred. My friend invited me to her church. I had never been an avid churchgoer, but I decided to give it a chance. At that point in my life I was going through a difficult time and decided maybe I could benefit from going to church. Now four years later I’m still attending the same church and am pondering the thought of pursuing a career as a youth pastor. Becoming a Christian was one of the biggest decisions I have made in my
life. Dealing with my parent’s divorce and later on my decision of becoming a Christian were not what I expected to shape my character so abundantly. As the years go on I learn more and more, but those two events will always be what had the greatest impact on who I am today. All my difficult times led me closer to God. I’m appreciative of all the hardships I have conquered because they have turned me into who I am today.
I spent every spring and summer in middle school doing mission work and community service. I loved the opportunity that it gave me to build relationships and share my beliefs with people I didn’t know. Little did I know that this would pave the way for a life-changing experience that I would encounter one day. Each spring my church would host a missionary event called “The Ignite Project.” I felt an urge to join the group, recognizing that it was a calling to profess my faith in Jesus. These mission trips helped me to go out
I was born and raised in the town of Mooresville, NC. It is, and always will be, the only place that I can truly call “home”. Everyone’s hospitality here has inspired me to always be considerate to anyone I meet. My parents and grandparents have also raised me to be myself and to always make the right decisions. They are my biggest fans and without their love and support, I would be lost. With their help, I was a participant on Teens Westward Bound (TWB) this past summer. It is a 23 day leadership program that takes 80 teenagers across America. This life-changing trip helped mold me into the person I am today, and the lessons I gained and information I learned will last me a lifetime. I am also fortunate enough to be part of an incredible school district that really cares about its students. Mooresville Graded School District made a digital conversion in 2007 that enabled almost every child to have access to a laptop. This transformation is what initially sparked my interest in computers. All of these factors have sculpted me into the intelligent and responsible young woman I am today, with the hope of creating a promising career in the field of computer science.
Each Sunday different ladies in our church would alternate teaching, some I loathed more than others, and every so often I got to have my own grandmother. Eventually, I was old enough to join our church’s youth group, which is where I became more involved in the church than ever. As I was becoming of age to enter youth group, a lot of the teens there were no longer teens so they moved into regular sermon. As a result of this, in a way, it was my duty to step up, put my best foot forward, and pull out my leadership abilities. I took on leadership roles in becoming a Sunday night nursery worker, member of the adult choir, and even becoming the children’s choir director.
Although I am only sixteen years old and in the eleventh grade of high school, many things have influenced me and caused me to be the person that I am today. I hope that these things will continue to help me be a better person and influence me as my life continues. Some of the things that have influenced me have been church, my family, my friends, and school.
It was a Tuesday afternoon and I was just getting to my psychology class and as usual I was chit chatting with my neighbors in class, Cpl Christie and Fausnight about the things that each of us did this weekend. Just when I had finished talking to Kara (Fausnight) about her weekend our psychology teacher Dr. Douglas walks in. As she is walking in I in my peppy self- personality ask how her weekend went. Dr. Douglas then proceeded to tell me that it was “none of my business”…….maybe she was having a bad day or was really stressed out or maybe in fact it was “none of my business”. She also told me that there was a certain thing called boundaries and that I needed to find out what that was. I felt dumbfounded to say the least. I’ve always been a real social person. Pretty much striking a conversation with anyone. So I was brain storming the other day and I was wondering about what to write my paper about. Just then the previous scenario came to mind and I figured I could intertwine me and how the influences that I’ve had throughout my life have influenced me and made me the outgoing, friendly, social person that I am. I’ll attempt to do this by using Erickson’s stages of development (Myers, 2005). O.k. we will start by looking at the infancy stage. Where an infant learns either to Trust or Mistrust people. I don’t know how much is true but in talking to my parents they told me that ever since the day I was born I was such a crybaby.
The second event that impact my development was when my father got promoted at his job, our life had shifted 180 degree and became more comfortable. My father started making more money and working less hours and that’s gave him an opportunity to spend more time with us. All these factors
“An Event Which Changed My Life” An Event which changed my life, well when, I think back on my life there’s Many changes for the good and some were bad but, there were some learning experiences that help make me a better person. The events in my life, was dealing with the Birth and The Death of my first daughter. The First, Event was the birth of my first daughter it, was a joyous event in my life.
A couple of moments have shaped me into the student I am. Unfortunate most of those moments have been bad moment. In my class most of them are overachievers, people who try their hardest and have good grades because of it, I haven’t. Even though people who know about my grade don’t think so I have tried my hardest a lot of times but haven’t ever gotten good grades because of that. Most of those moments have been really disappointing but this is the main one and how it shaped me to the student I am today:
As the famous American poet named Carl Sandburg once remarked, “Nearly all the best things that came to me in life have been unexpected, unplanned by me. These unforeseen incidents had also made my life fascinating, which led to my presence. The majority of these significant episodes were not under my control, yet they have molded me into a unique individual I am today. My life chapters have left a profound impact in my life, such as descending from a revered king, my parents becoming American citizens, and the birth of my second brother Kaushal.
I have been working as a home care provider for children and adults with Autism for almost three years now. Throughout my time connecting with these people and their families, I have learned many things valuable to me that I will continue to apply to my life for as long as I live. However, there are a few lessons in particular that I have learned that will influence my academic work and goals at Colorado Christian University; never give up and be a light. I can say my entire career as a whole has established these lessons, but one particular child I worked with truly showed me that all things are possible if you never stop trying and always lead with love. This young man is thirteen years old, and would be classified as severely Autistic.
Many people and things surrounding me have had an impact in my life. The people who have had the greatest impact in my life is my family. My family is the reason I do the most of the stuff I do. Because my family, I want to succeed and do whatever that it takes to do so. I want to make sure I set a good example for my younger siblings and family members.
Often, there is a significant event in someone’s life that gives their life purpose or has a significant meaning. For Sandra Cisneros that happened when her father was finally able to read one of her stories and show her how proud he was of his “Only Daughter”. My significant life event happened when I found out that I am adopted. The realization of being an adopted child can be filled with many mixed emotions and at the same time be a blessing for a parent and a child.
Two years after coming to Christ For The Nations my mother was ordained Pastor Marvelous. After graduating from Christ For The Nations. My mom stayed in Dallas, Texas until a friend connected her with my dad and they got married. After they got married in 2001 they moved to New Jersey where my dad had been living. While living in New Jersey my mom had my older sister in 2002, and me in 2003. Our family enjoyed living in New Jersey until 2005 when my parents decided that they wanted to raise in a less packed place. We moved to Indiana in August of
So here’s a little bit about some stuff that has truly shaped my life. First off I originally was raised in Senatobia, Ms and in this town the main thing you are taught is manners and to respect people even if you don’t want to. So I was very respectful to teachers and adults and would help my neighbors do stuff such as take their trash out for them, cut tree branches, or little things like if they needed light bulbs changed. While living in Mississippi I grew up with two older siblings a brother and sister. This kept me to be very competitive in all things i did from sports to hunting. They also taught me to be careful of believing everything people told you because some people just want to see you get in trouble or they might tell you that
Upon reading the essay prompt, I took a few moments to introspect. I thought back to every experience that helped mold me into the person I am today. As human beings, we are influenced by many aspects of our surroundings. Even as children, we develop certain attributes through observation, or through conditioning by our parents. These attributes may not be always positive, but the combination of both positive and negative qualities form the people we are today. No one is perfect; nevertheless, some are fortunate enough to have their strengths outweigh their weaknesses. I believe I am one of those lucky people.