Anyone can be forced into making rash decisions when losing support from their own family. The narrator in Eudora Welty’s Why I live at the P.O. presumes her family is unsupportive when they will not believe her, so she suddenly decides to gather her belongings and leave. The first-person point of view of Sister provides insights into how she feels about her family. Her point of view sees Stella-Rondo differently than the other characters in the story. Sister’s over-dramatization of her sister’s situation reveals her manipulation towards the reader to make herself look righteous. The narrator’s first-person point of view shows her bias which proves her to be untrustworthy, provides insights into alternate points of view, and reveals how the …show more content…
story and characters around her are influenced. Sister is made out to be unreliable because she tells her own version of what happened in a way to influence the reader into believing her. She does not reveal any of her own jealousness or pettiness through her description. She claims to be a victim of Stella-Rondo’s hate when she truly is the one who hates her. From the beginning of the story, she tries to justify to the reader her reasons for leaving her family. Sister is jealous and angry at Stella-Rondo because Mr. Whitaker had once dated her and now she thinks he abandoned her sister. Also, since Shirley T. was too old to have been born while they were married, she suspects she was born outside of marriage and been the reason for why Mr. Whitaker had left for Stella-Rondo. The other characters refuse to believe the narrator causing her isolate herself from them. When Stella-Rondo accused her of stating Uncle Rondo looked like a fool, Sister attempted to gain sympathy by declaring she stuck up for him. Her claim is difficult to believe because her point of view is biased. She persistently thinks other characters are wrong, but her thoughts and actions reveal she may be the one who is wrong. Sister’s version of the story is difficult to believe because of her evident paranoia. She is convinced her family is hostile to her, so she twists the truth in an attempt to convince the reader she is the victim of her family's attacks. Although her accusation of Stella-Rondo’s situation may be true, her own exaggeration of her oppression by her family leaves her story to be unreliable. From the point of view of her other family members, they see Sister’s motive for leaving to be different.
She appeared to be rude to her family and jealous of her Stella-Rondo. The rest of the family saw how she was judgemental towards others. Even though Sister said Stella-Rondo lied about what she said towards Papa-Daddy and Uncle Rondo, she still judged her sister for her daughter who she did not believe was adopted. Without an account from another point of view, the truth of the situation cannot be revealed. Stella-Rondo could potentially be telling the truth about what the narrator said about her family members. This alternate truth could be believable because of the untruthful narrator. The story is told in her view because she is the one creating drama and attempting to give reasons for why she felt leaving her family was right. The narrator’s view is limiting because the story only presents one characters assessment of the situation. From other character’s perspectives, they do not see her true motive for leaving the …show more content…
family. Eudora Welty’s use of first-person point of view from the older sister’s perspective affects the story and the characters involved.
The narrator’s paranoia of her family causes the work to become more captivating and complicated than it first appears to be. The dispute first resembles a normal family conflict. The rest of the family first comes across as being evil, so the reader would first sympathize with Sister. However, the narrator is attempting to convince the reader to believe she is the one who is right when in reality she is wrong. The story is written from Sister’s view to describe how the effects of jealousy and paranoia can distort the truth. She seeks to justify her decision to live at the post office by telling the story in a way which creates the illusion of her family to appear negative. By telling the story in first-person, the narrator reveals the truth of the situation. The truth is how someone's paranoia can completely change the truth into something completely different and lead to isolation. The narrator tries to hide her troubled relationship with her family members while she tries to connect with them. However, she begins isolating herself from them and describing her family negatively when they refuse to believe anything she
says. The point of view ties into the theme of how important honesty can be and how dangerous jealousy is. The narrator becomes paranoid when her family distrusts her because no one will believe her claims about her sister. Her distrust causes her to isolate herself from her family. The importance of telling from Sister’s point of view is to teach how reality can become distorted through the effects of paranoia. From any other perspective, the story would have been noticeably different due Sister’s unfair views. At the end of the story, she says she wants the world to know she’s happy, but inside she really isn’t. The narrator’s reason for separation from her family is not as simple as she wants to think. Her jealousy of Stella-Rondo drives her into separation from her family. The story teaches the lesson of how jealousy and dishonesty can divide a family.
Previously, the narrator has intimated, “She had all her life long been accustomed to harbor thoughts and emotions which never voiced themselves. They had never taken the form of struggles. They belonged to her and were her own.” Her thoughts and emotions engulf her, but she does not “struggle” with them. They “belonged to her and were her own.” She does not have to share them with anyone; conversely, she must share her life and her money with her husband and children and with the many social organizations and functions her role demands.
The mother and daughter have a very distant relationship because her mother is ill and not capable to be there, the mother wishes she could be but is physically unable. “I only remember my mother walking one time. She walked me to kindergarten." (Fein). The daughter’s point of view of her mother changes by having a child herself. In the short story the son has a mother that is willing to be helpful and there for him, but he does not take the time to care and listen to his mother, and the mother begins to get fed up with how Alfred behaves. "Be quiet don't speak to me, you've disgraced me again and again."(Callaghan). Another difference is the maturity level the son is a teenager that left school and is a trouble maker. The daughter is an adult who is reflecting back on her childhood by the feeling of being cheated in life, but sees in the end her mother was the one who was truly being cheated. “I may never understand why some of us are cheated in life. I only know, from this perspective, that I am not the one who was.” (Fein). The differences in the essay and short story show how the children do not realize how much their mothers care and love
In Why I Live at the P.O. something that I discovered to be very ordinary was the confrontation of Stella-Rondo telling lies about the narrator (sister). There are two instances when this happens, the first lie is Stella-Rondo says “Papa-Daddy, Sister says she fails to understand why you don’t cut off your beard” (438 Welty). The second lie is when Stella-Rondo says, “Sister has been devoting this solid afternoon to sneering out my bedroom window at the way you look” (443 Welty). By Stella-Rondo pinning these lies on her sister it turns the family members against her sister and for the family to favor Stella-Rondo over sister. It all started too with sister assuming that Stella-Rondo’s baby is not adopted “She was the spit-image of Papa-Daddy….
Her father works out of town and does not seem to be involved in his daughters lives as much. Her older sister, who works at the school, is nothing but plain Jane. Connie’s mother, who did nothing nag at her, to Connie, her mother’s words were nothing but jealousy from the beauty she had once had. The only thing Connie seems to enjoy is going out with her best friend to the mall, at times even sneaking into a drive-in restaurant across the road. Connie has two sides to herself, a version her family sees and a version everyone else sees.
Suffering from the death of a close friend, the boy tries to ignore his feelings and jokes on his sister. His friend was a mental patient who threw himself off a building. Being really young and unable to cope with this tragedy, the boy jokes to his sister about the bridge collapsing. "The mention of the suicide and of the bridge collapsing set a depressing tone for the rest of the story" (Baker 170). Arguments about Raisinettes force the father to settle it by saying, "you will both spoil your lunch." As their day continues, their arguments become more serious and present concern for the father who is trying to understand his children better. In complete agreement with Justin Oeltzes’ paper, "A Sad Story," I also feel that this dark foreshadowing of time to come is an indication of the author’s direct intention to write a sad story.
...en-year-old girl”. She has now changed mentally into “someone much older”. The loss of her beloved brother means “nothing [will] ever be the same again, for her, for her family, for her brother”. She is losing her “happy” character, and now has a “viole[nt]” personality, that “[is] new to her”. A child losing its family causes a loss of innocence.
Sister’s frustration with Stella-Rondo obstructs their relationship, and even though Sister thinks she wants freedom from her family, her self-consciousness will keep her from achieving it. Sister acts hastily about the matter of moving out in order to gain independence. Independence comes from experience, not a split decisions made in a hurry. This quote by Steve Schmidt explains what Sister has quickly found out over the past five days, “the price for independence is often isolation and solitude."
Why I live at the P.O. was written by Eudora Welty in 1941. Sister, the first person narrator, who is a flat character in the story, causes external conflicts within her family as a result of her inner-conflicts. Such as lack of self-confidence and a demanding need to be the center of attention. Due to the conflicts she deals with inside herself, she is driven to move out of her family’s home and into the post office. In the beginning of the story the reader has sympathy for Sister due to the conflicts that are going on, but later on in the story we start to see that these conflicts were perpetuated by Sister herself. As this occurs the story takes on a comedic aspect from the view of the reader, and we lose our sympathy for Sister.
The author clearly shows how his childhood effected his adulthood, making in a living example of what he is writing about allowing the audience to more easily trust what he is writing about. Instead of using factually evidence from other dysfunctional family incidences, the author decides to make it more personal, by using his own life and comparing family ideas of the past to the present.
In the commencement of the story, the narrator is shocked and in disbelief about the news of his brother’s incarceration, “It was not to be believed” (83). It had been over a year since he had seen his brother, but all he had was memories of him, “This would always be at a moment when I was remembering some specific thing Sonny had once said or done” (83). The narrator’s thoughts about Sonny triggered his anxiety that very day. It was difficult to bear the news of what his brother had become, yet at some point he could relate to Sonny on a personal level, “I hear my brother. And myself” (84). After the news had spurred, the narrator experienced extreme anxiety to the point of sweating. Jus...
The protagonist in Budge Wilson’s short story “The Leaving”is confronted with both an internal and external conflict which teaches both the protagonist and the readers about the essence of having the courage to listen to one’s conscience and standing up for what they believe is just. To begin with, the mother decides to take a risk of leaving their home along with her daughter, in order to do some thinking regarding on what her conscience tells her to do, and also to provide her daughter with a glimpse of what the outside world looks like. The mother is completely aware that it is undoubtedly a risky move to do as “for a moment, [she seems] to hesitate”, yet she knows that this opportunity is beneficial for both her and her daughter and so “she
In the book The House on Mango Street, written by Sandra Cisneros, the main character, Esperanza, was affected by many external forces, including family. Esperanza is a young teen who just moved to Mango Street, and she doesn’t like her house because it’s ugly, and she dreams of another house that her family has promised one day. “I have inherited her name, but I don’t want to inherit her place by the window (Cisneros 11). This was in reference to her great grandmother who didn’t want to marry, but Esperanza’s great grandfather kidnapped her and forced her to marry, where Esperanza’s great grandmother never forgave him and looked out a window for the rest of her life. Esperanza didn’t chose her name, her family did, and she didn’t chose who her family is either. The external force of family is an issue in real life just as it is in this novel, and the teens learn to either love it or hate it.
Mrs. Mallard’s repressed married life is a secret that she keeps to herself. She is not open and honest with her sister Josephine who has shown nothing but concern. This is clearly evident in the great care that her sister and husband’s friend Richard show to break the news of her husband’s tragic death as gently as they can. They think that she is so much in love with him that hearing the news of his death would aggravate her poor heart condition and lead to death. Little do they know that she did not love him dearly at all and in fact took the news in a very positive way, opening her arms to welcome a new life without her husband. This can be seen in the fact that when she storms into her room and her focus shifts drastically from that of her husband’s death to nature that is symbolic of new life and possibilities awaiting her. Her senses came to life; they come alive to the beauty in the nature. Her eyes could reach the vastness of the sky; she could smell the delicious breath of rain in the air; and ears became attentive to a song f...
Her character is portrayed as being anxious through the author’s choice of dialogue in the form of diction, which is “waves of her [the mother] anxiety sink down into my belly”. The effect of this is to allow the readers to establish the emotions of the narrator, as well as establish an the uneasy tone of the passage, and how stressful and important the event of selling tobacco bales for her family is. Additionally, the narrator is seen to be uncomfortable in the setting she is present in. This is seen through the many dashes and pauses within her thoughts because she has no dialogue within this passage, “wishing- we- weren’t- here”, the dashes show her discomfort because the thought is extended, and thus more intense and heavy, wishing they could be somewhere else. The effect of the narrator’s comfort establishes her role within the family, the reason she and her sister does not have dialogue symbolizes that she has no voice within the family, as well as establishing hierarchy. The authors use dictation and writing conventions to develop the character of the narrator herself, as well as the mother. The narrator’s focus on each of her parents is additionally highlighted through
The novel follows the protagonist, Celie, as she experiences such hardships as racism and abuse, all the while attempting to discover her own sense of self-worth. Celie expresses herself through a series of private letters that are initially addressed to God, then later to her sister Nettie. As Celie develops from an adolescent into an adult, her letters possess m... ... middle of paper ... ... bservations of her situation and form an analysis of her own feelings.