Essay On Crisis Exploration

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I can say I learned lots but my test say differently, so much was taught and very little stuck in my pea brain. What I learned in this class was how my life turned out and why it turned out this way. I feel that, if these topics were taught at a younger age in life, such as Generation X such as myself would probably be much better of in mind and life status, well I would. Picking a topic or topics is more complicated than asking, but just based on what really sticked or stuck out is the 4 parts, better yet said the crisis exploration and model of self. I feel that, the secure,dismissing, preoccupied and fearful the attachment theory in adults of Erik Erickson and the Identity confusion, Identity foreclosure, Identity moratorium and identity …show more content…

How is it possible to be fearful in life and still meet all your goals in life? We overcome our fears by confronting and looking forward towards the goal or goals we like to accomplish in life or at least that's what I have done. One can be fearful but lonely but to reach achievement one needs to explorative and committed which might not be so lonely. What I did not understand was a person can not change but I say Yes a person can change once he or she realizes it is needed to find themselves in a better state or situation. I feel one can change, unfortunately sometimes we find it too late in life and this is why I say this should be taught at a earlier time in life like say the 4th stage of Erikson. I feel, I would have been more prepared in life if I would have been informed at a younger age of these theories for one I would direct my own self and not be directed like I was. I also feel I found what kind of person I was and who I am know and who Id like to be more off myself. I would like to be more secure, but yet more preoccupied or that I am in the MAMA stage one of the crisis stages which I am okay with it. I find myself attracted to secure partners and don't end well but keep coming back, they like to feel in- charge and I am so submissive but because I strive for

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