Essay On Cisnero's Woman Hollering Creek

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White women in the 1950 were caged within the home; their form of self-identification became “I’m just a housewife” (19). “Girls went to college to get a husband,” says Friedan; thus, women girls purposed themselves for men and for sexual capital. Perhaps times have since changed, but this identification remains glorified; women strive to marry, to find their prince. They find find themselves subjected to Rich’s compulsory heterosexuality. Such is not the haunt of white women alone. Indeed, in Cisnero’s short story Woman Hollering Creek, the telenovelas that lead character Cleòfilas watches and the romance books she reads influence her to dream about domestic bless. Despite her unhappy marriage, she continues to try to persuade herself that her husband …show more content…

As a result of such and as a result of how undefined womanhood is, it is unsurprising that “If woman discovers herself as the inessential and never turns into the essential” (de Beauvoir, 8). Because of such, it becomes difficult to determine how to react in the face of trauma. Cleòfilas’ marriage is not only unhappy, but it is also abusive. Her husband isolates her, disrespects her, throws her fantasies of domestic bliss into her face by hurling her novels at her face, and hits her. The first time he hits her, “She didn’t cry out or try to defend herself” although she “had always said she would strike back if a man, any man, were to strike her” (Cisneros 222). Yet, it is not so easy to recognize how to react when a societal definition of womanhood casts you as dependent, as the negative. Such difficulty to address trauma is not unique to women, of course. Regardless, they are common victims. A boyfriend of my closest friend harassed her, stalked her, hurled verbal abuse at her. Yet, her friends pardoned him, justifying his behavior with explanations that he was infatuated with her and heartbroken at her

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