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Although, new doors to communication are being opened through the emergence of various social media sites allowing for a new form of intimacy to grow, however an increase of fake profiling results in a hoax intimacy. Catfishing is becoming a trend we overlook; people are forgetting what it is really is to be labeled: a catfish. The term is being used loosely and frequently as an insult rather than for someone who is sharing false information, communicating with people, and has some psychological problems. Catfish the tv show has opened the eyes of many to this phenomena of internet personalities. MTV defines the term ‘catfish’ as a verb meaning “to pretend to be someone you’re not online by posting false information, such as someone else’s pictures, on social media sites, usually with the intention of getting …show more content…
someone to fall in love with you.” Statistics show an increase in the number of fake profiles since the show first aired. In 2012, Facebook reported that 8.7% of its members are ‘bogus’. A year later, Facebook released a statement saying the number increased to 11.2%. Fake profiling does not only occur on Facebook; catfishing occurs on dating websites, Twitter, and Instagram. Not only has the quantity of fake profiles increased, the quality of false information has too. It is evident in the show that the false information shared has been getting worse, the lies are getting bigger and more irrational. In the first episode, Sunny, a 21-year-old nursing student fell in love with a man named Jamison King, turns out Jamison was a girl named Chelsea who was seeking female companionship. In the season 4 finale, the last aired episode, Brittany, a 24 year old stay at home mom of three, fell in love with Byron, a 27 year old marine who suffers from PTSD. It turns out that Byron is actually a 25 year old law enforcement student, named Heather. Catfish, a word generally used to describe someone who lures another person into a relationship by using an online persona, has now turned into a slang term used when someone looks different in person than on their social media accounts. If a girl post pictures on social media of her all dressed up and wearing makeup but likes to look natural and comfy in person, she is identified as a catfish. Those are not characteristics of a catfish. A catfish is someone who creates a fake profile, uses that account to talk to other people, and has psychological problems. A catfisher uses fake information and/or fake pictures. People often use false birthdays or false locations on their profile, this is not considered catfishing. Although they are giving out false information, they are not deliberately trying to lie to someone, they are just ensuring their safety by keeping personal things private. Although some people might be trying to seem like someone who they are not with the stuff they post online, they are not considered a catfish. For example, someone who only posts nature pictures but does not go outdoors much is trying to seem like they are “one with nature”. Even though that is on the verge of false information, the person is still using his/her personal account and not hiding their identity. One’s media persona is not considered a catfish, it turns into catfishing when they start communicating with others using the account. A catfisher uses their account to talk to people. Many people may have just created a fake profile because they were bored and wanted to see how people they knew are doing without following them from their personal accounts but when that person makes multiple accounts or starts using it to contact people, it becomes catfishing. There are many reasons as to why someone contacts another person with a fake profile. Some people create accounts with malicious intent. They do it out of their own enjoyment and do not care how the other person will feel. Many times, catfishing can turn into a form of cyberbullying. A person may also just make a fake profile in order to hide their identity while trying to communicate the truth or facts to someone else. For example, someone may just create a fake account to tell a friend that their significant other is cheating on them or someone may create a fake profile in order to view another person’s profile because they assume that person is lying. Although that may be the case in some situations, catfishing is still having a negative effect on society because it is resulting in people not confronting issues face to face. It is resulting in people being more passive. This may also result in people having trust issues. The false information given may make someone wonder how much of everything is the truth. Studies show someone who constantly catfishes has psychological problems; people who usually catfish often have identity issues, are seeking attention, addicted to stalking, or have low self esteem.
Many people feel more comfortable talking through a computer rather than in person. Some experts believe that catfishing is related to pathological lying. Pathological lying is usually motivated by need to regulate self-esteem, denial of reality, or desire for power. How far can catfishing go? Catfishing can results in psychological problems in the victim as well. They may become depressed or have trust issues after being betrayed. Although studies on the topic have been conducted, very little is known about the psychology of catfishing. There is not enough information to make the connection between catfishing and psychological problems. Maybe it is just a coincidence that people who have some type of psychological disorder tend to create fake accounts, rather than creating fake accounts causes people to have disorders but at one point or another every catfisher can agree that the account has caused them some stress (even if that means after they were
caught). With all the new ways of interacting online, catfishing is becoming a new trend. Although there may be some perks to creating a fake profile such as: concealing your identity and creating an alter ego (media character for gaming which can be essential to growing), it is still having a negative effect on society. Catfishing can be considered a form of identity theft and stalking, so if we do not start to reduce the amount of fake profiles, we are basically encouraging illegal acts. Moreover, catfishing results in the loss of many friendships and people’s emotions getting played with. Although there are various reasons as to why someone creates a fake profile, and not all of them are deliberately trying to hurt someone, people are tending to lose their grip on reality. They are being entrapped in the cyber world, thus alienating themselves. They are exchanging online friends and technological communications for physical human interactions.
In our age of endless involvement in social media, we often see that people know online aren’t what they seem. Some social media users don’t know that same people we follow or are friends with on Facebook are controlling the way they are being perceived by other users. It’s a new social phenomenon born online and isn’t taken noticed by the everyday users, but there had been movies and stories about it. The topic of identity on social media is being bought up more often in the worldwide conversion about what social media means to us. In the essay “Impression Management on Facebook and Twitter” by Annalise Sigona seeks to inform readers and social media users about the unknowns about the impression and the way user present themselves in social media. When reading this essay, I was introduced to new term, and something I had vague understanding for.
Fleming begins her argument by paralleling the transformative properties of the invention of the telephone years ago to social networks today (Fleming). But, Fleming states that “students’ online identities and friendships come at a price, as job recruiters, school administrators, law enforcement officers and sexual predators sign on and start searching” (Fleming). Social networking websites like MySpace and Facebook are frequented favorites, especially by college students. These sites have become so popular that “friending” a person is now a dictionary verb. However, Fleming believes that students are not as cautious as they should be. In fact, “thirty percent of students report accepting ‘friend’ reques...
Does lust lead to hardship and emptiness? In this paper (do you mean "this paper" or "John Updike's 'A&P'?) Sammy has a sexual appetite that causes him problems. His worship of a woman's (careful with placement of possessive apostrophe) body causes him to misplace his values and center only on one value. This value is his lustful pleasure he gets when he sees three girls in their skimpy swimsuits. The pleasure he receives outweighs the consequence of emptiness he finally feels after he defends those girls and they do not respond to his pleasurable feelings. Updike in his short story "A&P" uses characterization to illustrate that heroics based upon animalistic sexual appetite, which objectifies women, will lead to a hard and unsuccessful life.
I’m scrolling through the articles on Snapchat and find my way across one with an intriguing title, I instantly tap on it. I begin to scroll further down only to find myself going through extensive paragraphs of information and suddenly this article that seemed so interesting became a bore. In Nicholas G. Carr’s novel, The Shallows, he argues the internet is creating more problems to us humans than actual benefits. Our social skills are starting to lack and our interaction with technology is beginning to heighten. Humans contemplative skills are slowly fading away due to our reliance on the internet to solve our problems. Technology is inevitable by humans, seeing that individuals use it in their everyday lives. Unfortunately, this is a problem considering the use of high-tech gadgets decrease in one’s capacity for concentration, contemplation, and personal memory.
I will be using this article to represent the ways someone disguises their profile in order to grasp someone attention to scam them. The research within this article represents all the deception used on online dating websites. Two study were used both computer and human studies which allows me both the online aspect and the real aspect of the risks of online dating and falsifying information.
The hookup culture has become deeply ingrained in the college experience, all across the country students are fulfilling their desires while preserving their autonomy. On the surface the hookup culture doesn’t sound so bad, however, I am going to argue that the hookup culture itself stems from and promulgates problematic societal inequalities. I will develop my claim by first discussing the dominance of the hookup culture and the societal pressure placed on those who don’t want to participate or are unsure about participating in what the culture has to offer. Then, I will illustrate why the general dynamic of the heterosexual hookup is an uneven playing field even for women who actively choose to participate in the hookup culture. Finally,
Anything can be written on Social Media sites without conformation, ever heard of a CATFISH! A catfish is person who set up fake account using pictures of someone else, sometime even using the same name as the person who is in the picture. The internet makes this so easy for catfishes to do, for the fact that on any device a picture from any social site can be copied and pasted and saved.
When someone “friends you” on Facebook, it doesn’t automatically mean that you have some special relationship with that person. In reality it really doesn’t mean that you now have the intimacy and familiarity that you have with some offline friends. And research shows that people don’t commonly accept friend requests from or send them to people they don’t really know, favoring instead to have met a person at least once (Jones). A key part of interpersonal communication is impression management, and some methods of new media allow people more tools for presenting themselves than others. SNSs in many ways are podiums for self-presentation. Even more than blogs, web pages, and smartphones, the atmosphere on a SNS like Facebook and Twitter enables self-disclosure in a focused way and permits others who have access to ones profile to see their other friends. This merging of different groups of people that include close friends, family, acquaintances, and friends of friends, colleagues, and strangers can present issues for self-presentation. Once people have personal, professional, and academic contacts in their Facebook network the growing diversity of social media networks creates new challenges as people try to engage in impression management
Lu, H. (2008). Sensation-seeking, internet dependency, and online interpersonal deception. CyberPsychology & Behavior, 11(2), 227-231.
Being involved socially online can open many doors to hackers and scammers. Posting too much information online can be a way for scammers to steal information.
The television series of this show “Catfish” shows us that there are many individuals out there like Angela, who create completely fabricated identities, for many different reasons. Whether it is malicious or a release for the person; It is an escape from reality in most cases. This alerts us to the dangers of social media, and makes us wary of meeting new people online, as all may not be what it seems.
The human need for affiliation creates the challenges and rewards of finding acquaintances, forming close friendships, as well as intimate relationships. Through technological advances cyberspace, or the internet, has become a place of multiple opportunities for people to be able to fulfill that need for affiliation. Websites, chat rooms, and online communities are just some examples of virtual platforms for people to seek others, come together, and find that special someone. These opportunities can result in positive outcomes allowing people to achieve what or whom they were seeking, but they can also result in harm to themselves and others, resulting with damaging consequences. Cyberspace does not come with a warning label. People who use the internet as a means to seek relationships are at risk of being exposed to positive as well as negative results. Being made aware of some of those risks and dangers, and realizing that forming relationships on the internet is not all fun and games, may be ways to help promote a positive future for cyberspace as a place to form successful relationships.
to the core concept of one’s own self” (Pennington, 2008, p.6). Due to social networking, the idea of moving through the onion layers is nonexistent. Upon become “Facebook friends” with someone, one can find out where that person is from ,whom they have dated, where they were last night, and what is their family’s favorite Christmas tradition. Of course, the sender of the friend request is not at fault, because society struggles with “what is private vs. what is public”. The research done suggests that by looking to the natural views of how the social penetration theory society has evolved that two things result; (1) we have different concepts of public vs....
With the level of exposure that teens are facing today by joining the social networking trend, they often forget the dangers of social networking such as stalkers and pedophiles, who may use the sites as a major tool of the trade. Said dangers can befriend naïve teens and lure them into dangerous situations. For example, Raymond Wang had a friend being stalked by an unknown person through one of the social networking sites. This stalker acquired private information about her via Facebook, and it got to the point where the stalker was sending her threatening or perverted letters to her actual mailbox detailing what he would do to her. “This has really affected her a lot because now she’s scared other stalkers might do the same and she doesn't want that to happen or have anything happen to her.” (Wang 19) Even though users are given the option to make one’s profile private, there is still the looming threat that stalkers are able to gather enough information about the person’s whereabouts. Another similar incident happened to Regina Chau, a member of a social networking site catered to the raver lifestyle, Plurlife. When she first joined with her offline friends she liked everything about the SNS, but “[where] most of the people you accept to your friends list would probably be strangers.” (Chau 18) she had befriended a person she did not know offline and one these “friends” got a little too friendly with her; “he would keep asking over and over if I wanted to meet up with him at the next event. I found this a little creepy and did not message him back after that.
The Folks have had these strange encounters, for example this one guy has conversed with a girl he met Surfeit online for about a week. The couple decided to on a date. When they finally met the guy finds out that not only did the picture she gave him was fake but also her name. When asked, she said she was pretending to be her younger