Essay Comparing The Way To Rainy Mountain And My Father's Life

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Both N. Scott Momaday’s “The Way to Rainy Mountain” and Raymond Carver’s “My Father’s Life” involve reflection of the respective author’s relationship with a late family member. While the nature of the retrospectives vary greatly, in purpose of the writing and in relationship to the deceased, ultimately, each author concludes with similar emotional catharsis. Carter used the essay as a means to evaluate his feelings regarding his father’s life and their somewhat distant relationship. After his father’s death, Carver expresses remorse over that distance, and of how he made no further attempt to connect to his father emotionally, “I didn't have the chance to tell him goodbye, or that I thought he was doing great at his new job. That I was proud of him for making a comeback.” Meaning that Carver’s conclusive reaction to his father’s death was regret. Momaday’s goal is different, his essay, and journey to the eponymous “Rainy Mountain” was one created less out of a sense of regret than a sense of duty to his …show more content…

From reading the essay I gathered that these actions were a part of Carver’s reasoning for distancing himself from his father as he got older, along with the excuse of needing to tend to his own family. Compare Momaday, whose admiration for his grandmother was much more obviously written, and was able to receive his grandmother’s death with much more comfort. Throughout the essay, Momaday describes the mythic origins of his people, as well as their historical hardships, he recalls his grandmother’s amazing ability, “She could tell of the Crows, whom she had never seen, and of the Black Hills, where she had never been”. In doing so he reveals the purpose of his journey: to physically venture to these places where his grandmother had only been

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