Enlightenment Through Pain

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Through experiencing or living with pain, insight, knowledge and understanding can be presented to those things that may not have been in realization in a pain free life. Because of pain, the true meaning of life, what it is like to live, and the value of oneself and others is to be within one’s control. Pain strengthens the body, mind, and the spirit. As stated in Virginia Woolf’s essay on Being Ill, the true beauty of the people and the real beauty of the earth can be seen through the eyes of those who are in pain. Also according to Woolf, pain can lead to spiritual divinity. From my understanding, the power of prayer to some people is not in belief until pain has overtaken the body of oneself or of a loved one. Pain seems to open the eyes of those who have not lived correctly.

Small things in life are often overlooked due to the busy and determined career oriented lifestyles. The joys of live come through the detail of the small gestures given or received. The golden rule of “treat others the way you want to be treated,” is so important for people who want to lead a happy life. Until he was deathly ill, Ivan Ilyich, the main character in The Death of Ivan Ilyich, never appreciated the small things in life. His focus was narrowed to one topic. “Ivan made work the center gravity of his life (p. 50).” Before anything else, including his marriage, Ivan’s work and analyzing way of living was of first priority. Neither Ivan nor his friends valued one another. Ivan’s family and friends treated Ivan as if he was a large inconvenience. Ivan’s coworkers were selfish as to who were going to receive his job. His wife was also selfish as to her well-being. “Ivan’s wife, Praskovya Fyodorovna, went into Ivan’s hospital room ...

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...weeks in critical condition. Luckily, she survived and my passenger and I made it with minor injuries. Not a day goes by where I do not think about what happened, but I know it happened for a reason. Getting through this painful situation made me a stronger willed person. Taking things for granted is what I do not do. I truly value my life and my family’s lives. A life can be taken away at any second. Giving thanks for the joy and love in life is something that needs to be done daily. Material items are always replaceable, but a human being is not. Memories made will last a lifetime, but the presence of a loved one will not. The best advice is to live life to the fullest and value the sentimental belongings, especially family and friends. Pain is not an ease, but it helps ease the minds of those who are most important with respect and insight to value.

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