This Is Water Davis Foster Wallace on his commencement speech “This Is Water” at Kenyon College in 2005, delivers a life lesson arguing that our default thinking is that we are the center of the world. David Foster Wallace on his speech “This Is Water” at Kenyon College in 2005, deliver a different kind of commencement; he delivers a life listen speech arguing that people should learn something important which is choosing what to think. He tries to deliver his message by starting with a short story about three fishes; one of them is a wise old fish that asking the other young two how the water is, but the two young fishes don’t understand the question! In this story, the two young fishes are typical unthinking people, and the water represent what is surrounding us. He tries to show that most of us don’t really know what’s going around us because this is one thing of our default thinking; we …show more content…
usually only think about us. We don’t think about what the person next to us is going through; we only think about what we need and what is annoying us. As Wallace said we just think that we are the center of the world. Wallace brings up a really important topic in this unusual commencement speech: that we are self-centered and we don’t think about others us we think about ourselves.
In fact, unfortunately, as he keeps going on his speech, I realize that this is really true in our daily life. For example, sometimes when I am woken up in the morning because of the sound of leaf blowers, the first thing that would come to my mind is why this noisy man cleans the street at this time. I would feel angry because this is my default thinking, as if I’m the only important thing on this morning. However, If I tried to think a little bit deeply, I would realize that getting angry on this morning wasn’t because of the workman; it is because of the way I think. If I think that the workman wakes up earlier than me, and he tries to clean up the street before it gets crowded, I would not feel angry at all. I would instead feel appreciative for what he does, and feel happy. This change from getting angry to feeling happy just happen because of choosing what to think instead of staying in the default
setting. Considering the fact that this is a commencement ceremony, grabbing the audience’s attention to talk is not easy. Yet, Wallace could grab the audience attention by telling some stories that contain the main lesson. He explains his ideas through two stories, one of which is about the three fishes, and the other about two men debating about religions. Telling stories is one of the best ways to tech life lessons. In fact, most parents use this way when they want to teach their children new things since it’s enjoyable and easy to deliver the lesson. This is why Wallace chooses this way because he is talking to new graduated students who would probably don’t care about listening to life lesson at the time of graduation. It turns out that we, people, continue to be more self-centered; each newer generation is more selfish than the one before. In fact, nowadays, many don’t care about what happen to other people in other places. There are wars and dangerous diseases in some countries that we can eliminate, but no one would do anything if the problem doesn’t impact them. In fact, when some refuges come to our places, we think that they come to damage our society; we don’t put ourselves in their shoes and see what they are going through. We us human should care about others problems because there will be a day when we will have problems and we will want someone to care about us.
the great minds of our times: the meaning of life. He is able to somewhat
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It is common for human beings, as a race, to fall into the comforts of routine – living each day similar to days before and days to come. Unfortunately, it is often too late before one even realizes that they have fallen into this mundane way of living in which each day is completed rather than lived, as explained by David Foster Wallace in “This Is Water”. This commencement speech warned graduating students of the dangers of submitting to our “default settings” of unconscious decisions and beliefs (Wallace 234). However, this dangerous way of living is no new disability of today’s human race. Socrates warned the people of his time: “A life unaware is a life not worth living” and who is to say he wasn’t completely right? A topic of long debate also includes the kind of influence that consciously-controlled thoughts can have on the physical body. A year after Wallace’s speech, neurobiologist Helen Pilcher, published “The New Witch Doctor: How Belief Can Kill”, which explains the influence of the mind and individual beliefs on the quality of one’s life. Together, both authors illustrate how detrimental a life lived unaware of one’s own thoughts and beliefs can be on the body and spirit. And though it is easy to live by
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The best analogy in his speech is how we perceive primates, insects and rocks. We give primates more moral recognition and more ethical obligations than the other domains (insects and rocks). This is a factual claim that primates experience a wider range of emotion than insects and rocks, such as happiness and sadness. We treat them differently because they are more similar to us and we can empathize with those exact emotions. If there was new evidence indicating that insects and rocks can feel the same range of feelings, then that would change our moral views of the said
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