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Critical Analysis Paper
“This is How you Lose Her”
Topic one
In This Is How You Lose Her, the narrator/character of Yunior faces various dilemmas and struggles with who he is as a person. It is a story of how a character, Yunior, loses the love of his life through his own infidelity. The book also goes into detail into how men are taught to think that woman are not fully human and the very difficult process to which they learn the truth. In general, Yunior struggles with being a son, a brother, a lover, and many more throughout the novel. We see Yunior grow as a person and blossom into adulthood. While the book gives an overall outlook into his life and of those around him, we can piece together a chronological understanding of his childhood, adolescence, and adulthood. We can also see an overview of the people around him and in his life experiences and growth. The entire book is a collection of several unconnected stories that told by the same narrator, Yunior. Yunior appears as a reckless Dominican guy who’s unable to love others full heartedly. Throughout the book, Yunior’s stories portray love, betrayal and violence compressed and written in a textured tone while expressing difficult emotions mixed with cultural displacement and rejection from his adopted country.
The novel starts with the most unique statement, “I’m not a bad guy. I know how that sounds-defensive, unscrupulous- but it’s true. I’m like everybody else: weak, full of mistakes, but basically good.”(Junot Diaz, This Is How You Lose Her, page 3). The straight forward morality spoken by Yunior in this quote is a comparison from the theme of the rest of the book, which is c...
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...alf-life of love is forever.” (Junot Diaz, This Is How You Lose Her, page 18).
Yunior’s character evolves throughout the entire novel and we see him go from a boy into a man. The evolution of his character relates to the actual titles in book in various of different ways. We see him struggle with the relationships he has in the stories, including his mother. His step mother was a major part in his life, and many may argue that the relationship he did not have with his real mother may have been the reason for all his failed relationships with women and how he viewed them. Also the relationship he had with his father could have taken a major role as well. Although his father tried his best to be a great dad, he was not there too much emotionally and use money has a way to make up for it by buying him numerous amounts of gifts, clothes, and various of other things.
By reminiscing on his upbringing from living in Lima, Peru, a third world country. Father would constantly recall his biographical anecdotes to share with the family. Some stories were beyond gruesome in detail. Going in depth to the painful memories that still lingers around like a scar, my father told us how our grandfather, his own father, was abusive for even the most minute things. For instance, when my father would wore outfits that did not meet my grandfather’s standards, or looked into his father’s eyes fearfully when he was being punished, and even when he did not walk my grandmother to and from the grocery store. The mistreatment had reached the end of father’s patience when he became a rebellious son, breaking curfews and refusing to return home at the end of the day. In Junot Díaz 's short story Fiesta, 1980, narrated by an son, Yunior, who describes the hardships he and his Dominican family shared as they drove to a party in the Bronx in New York City. At the age of twelve, Yunior loses his innocence as a result from the never-ending verbal, emotional, and physical abuse his father, Papi, had taunted him with. This lost innocence was caused by what he had said, did, and did
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By examining the narrative voice as well as the cultural restraints placed on them, readers can see the sexist culture in the novel and that the novel itself does not necessarily advocate this misogyny. Yunior, a Dominican man, is the overall narrator of the novel, so readers essentially see everything through his masculine eye. When discussing a brief fling with Lola, Oscar’s sister, Yunior says, “Even those nights after I got jumped she wouldn’t let me steal on her ass for nothing. So you can sleep in my bed but you can’t sleep with me?” (Diaz 169) His question suggests that it is his right to sleep with her, and his discussion of Lola herself objectifies her by noting only her body and her refusal to use it. This objectification is clearly sexist, but it is a reflection of the narrative voice, Yunior, not of Lola. Yunior will casually refer to a woman as “a bitch” (Diaz 183), which is clearly demeaning, but it is a man’s view and does not reflect on the substance of the women. It shows readers the culture he was raised in, not an actual portrayal of the women, illustrating a misogynist society but not a misogynistic novel. In the Dominican Republic, gender-based violence is the fourth leading cause of death, hinting at the overall problems caused by the hyper-sexualized nature of the country. Sociologist Denise Paiewonsky
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