Compare And Contrast Expectations And Reality Of Love

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Greta Scott
Ms. Strain
Honors British Literature
2/26/18
Expectation v. Reality of Love: 19th Century England It is probable for individuals to disagree with social traditions and expectations. Some people feel obligated to rebel against society. However, most adults realize that compromise is necessary to achieve happiness. This is evident in early nineteenth century England, the scene of Jane Austen’s novel, “Pride and Prejudice.” In the novel, Elizabeth Bennett is a lively, independent woman, whose family’s financial situation, as well as her strong mindedness suggest she may never marry. Her personality contrasts to that of her best friend, Charlotte Lucas, while an intelligent and sensible girl, is “plain” in looks and aging …show more content…

Collins, as awful as he is, is actually socially equal to Charlotte. Although Charlotte’s father, Sir William Lucas, was once a knight, he is now retired and the family is no longer thriving. Therefore, Charlotte is left in a predicament of being too educated and upper-class to marry below her, as it would be a social demotion to her family, but she is also too poor and average in looks to attract a wealthy, good-looking man. Although Charlotte views Collins as “neither sensible nor agreeable,” she is a realist who recognizes her entrapment in the social web, and directs herself toward a solution to her problem. After Charlotte accepts Mr. Collins’s proposal, she reluctantly tells Lizzy, knowing it will make her upset. When seeing the shock and disgust on Lizzy’s face, Charlotte calmly defends herself, saying, “ ‘You must be surprised, very much surprised—so lately as Mr. Collins was wishing to marry you. But when you have had time to think it over, I hope you will be satisfied with what I have done. I am not romantic, you know; I never was. I ask only a comfortable home; and considering Mr. Collins's character, connection, and situation in life, I am convinced that my chance of happiness with him is as fair as most people can boast on entering the marriage state’ ” (147-148). Charlotte simply states that she doesn’t mind she isn’t Mr. Collins’s first choice and accepts a marriage with no love. She explains to Lizzy that her admittance of this proposal is necessary for

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