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Final Essay – Prompt #3 The characters in Gary Shteyngart’s “Super Sad True Love Story”, Ralph Waldo Emerson’s “Self-Reliance”, Russell Bank’s “Djinn”, and Alice Walker’s “Everyday Use” are similar in that they all display a relationship between humans and their environment. When each passage is broken down and analyzed, however, there are clear differences in how the authors depict the effects of the environment on the development of individuals and their relationships. While the characters in “Djinn” and “Everyday Use” are examples of being products of their cultural and family environment, Emerson argues the opposite by saying humans should not be controlled by their environment and should never conform in “Self-Reliance”, and Shteyngart …show more content…
illustrates the reality of the influence of the technological and economic environment on America if we keep allowing it to control us. The difference is significant because while “we’re the product of our environment” sometimes, it reveals that we, ourselves, are ultimately in control of how we shape our human identity, development, and experience. “Super Sad True Love Story” portrays America in the near future if we continue to allow the technological and economic environment to control us. A Bipartisan country where our currency is worthless and we are severely in debt to China, and sequentially we are ruled by mega corporations. This is all due to the quickly advancing global technology and crumbling economic structure of our country. Shteyngart uses a variety of mediums to tell the story between Lenny and Eunice allowing the reader to get a deeper understanding on each of them and how they develop throughout the story individually and with each other. Lenny’s diary entries, that seem to be more filtered and planned than Eunice’s emails to friends and family members, give us an idea on how society is so absorbed in technology causing a lack of physical social skills and a society obsessed with status. Technology overruns this society with the majority of the population excluding LNWIs (low net worth individuals) having a futuristic next generation “Apparat” readily available in the palm of their hands, “young people with Apparati, immune to the rest of the world.” (248), which are comparable to today’s iPhones, but are able to instantly pull up information about others nearby including: “credit, net worth, fuckability, personality, and attractiveness” (189) which is all used to rank individuals against others in the room. Apparats are a symbol for privacy, or the lack thereof. When there is a lack of privacy and everything is transparent about each individual, people are more likely to become self-conscious and more willing conforming to the society simply to get higher ratings. However if there were privacy and that information was hidden, individuals would not be worried about improving their scores as much. Global teen is a social network for all ages and is used by almost everyone and it reduces the amount of physical contact that people need to have with each other which affects social development. Like Maggie and Dee in Alice Walker’s “Everyday Use”, Eunice is influenced by the family environment she grew up in.
Eunice had problems during her childhood causing her to become insecure and afraid of commitment when it comes to relationships which ultimately affected her relationship with Lenny. On the contrary, Dee had the lack of family environment to shape her and this can be clearly seen in the difference of personality and attitude between Maggie and her. Before Dee’s arrival we are made aware of Dee’s and her mom’s relationship, “Sometimes I dream a dream in which Dee and I are suddenly brought together on a TV program of this sort” (197). The reader can conclude that their relationship wasn’t very loving, but surface. This is the polar opposite from the relationship her mom has with Maggie, “And then the two of us sat there just enjoying, until it was time to go…” (205). When Dee came back from her schooling, she was very disrespectful to her family and her culture, “But she turned without a word and went out to Hakim-a-barber” (205), storming off with an attitude. However there was one instance where Dee seemed to enjoy her culture, “Wangero, though, went on through the chitlins and corn bread…everything delighted her. Even the fact that we still used the benched her daddy …show more content…
made…”(202). “Djinn” and “Super Sad True Love Story” are similar in how they explore globalization and its effects. Both “Super Sad True Love Story” and “Djinn” highlight the negative effects of globalization on human experience. In “Djinn”, globalization leads to the narrator’s move to a post-colonial, “then a recently de-socialized” (120) African nation in order to run his company’s factory that was out sourced. The factory is a symbol of America’s funding that “financed a thuggish oligarchy” (120) which made it inevitable for some locals to eventually become homeless and live in “small camps of squatters” (122). In addition, the globalization adds to the cultural environmental forces that influence the narrator to feel guilty for the local’s pain which eventually lead him to isolate himself and avoid social contact, “I kept to myself and took my meals in my rooms or in the hotel…” (126) negatively affecting his experience in Africa. In “Super Sad True Love Story”, globalization has caused big corporation groups to overpower the US economy, but will eventually be bought out by China. The poor economy has caused a social class split between HNWI (high net worth individuals) and LNWI (low net worth individuals) which ultimately ruins the identity and experience of those labeled LNWI because there are also credit poles on the corner of the streets that reads individuals financial worth as they walk pass and will alert for LNWI to be removed from the city. Ralph Waldo Emerson’s “Self-Reliance” argues against the saying “we’re all products of our environment”. Emerson explains how he values individual experiences over knowledge gained from books, “I hope in these days we have heard the last of conformity and consistency.” (274), and you must “trust thyself” (269) because if you were to rely on others you would be a “minor and invalids in a protected corner…[a] coward” (269). Contrary to the other authors, Emerson expressed that “A true man belongs to no other time or place, but is center of all things, where he is, there is nature.” (274), meaning that nothing can control man because he is the center of all things, he is what makes up the environment. This self-reliance can actually be found in Russell Bank’s “Djinn”. While the narrator was originally influenced by his environment, letting it hold him down and negatively affect his life, at the end of the narrative, he came to a realization that he wanted to find self-fulfillment after seeing “[Djinn’s] face was still lit by a knowledge or emotion or memory that was more powerful and clarifying than anything we here below had ever experienced” (130). So he took his life in to his own hands and journeyed up the wall to realize that “A great thing has inflicted upon me, but it was clear, nothing has happened to anyone else”, and “[he] was alone” (135). Even though our environment has effects on shaping human identity, development, and experience, humans ultimately have the majority of control over their life because we have the ability to make conscious decisions regardless of the influence of our surroundings.
Our environment only has the power over us that we allow it to have. Our environment does not affect all of us equally, because those who are less privileged are more susceptible to environmental influences because they lack the ability to overcome the effects of the economic environment. Emerson’s “Self-Reliance” states that children are also less susceptible to environmental influences and are more self-reliant because they are too young to be hesitant or hypocritical, “Infancy conforms to nobody” (269). I believe technological environment forces most significantly shape our lives because technology is something that we are in contact with at every second of the day and as seen in “Super Sad True Love Story” if we put all our energy into technology it can be wiped away and we are rendered helpless like Lenny after the Rupture, “My apparat isn’t connecting. I can’t connect. No one’s apparati are working anymore” (268). With that being said, I believe we should be somewhat resistant of this advancing environment or at least cautious. Physical environment is inevitable and can’t be changed, so I don’t think that is something that should be considered as a major influence on shaping our lives. Our family and cultural
environment should be celebrated because I believe that you should allow yourself to be influenced by your family’s traditions, values, and cultures. However there will always be an exception which is why we need to stay aware of our surroundings.
A story review of the book. Relationships change over the passing of time as circumstances in life shape a person's way of thinking and way of life. Whether it flourishes or decays depends greatly upon how people react to these alterations. Before it is too late Relationships change over the passing of time as circumstances in life shape a person's way of thinking and way of life. Whether it flourishes or decays depends greatly upon how people react to these alterations.
Dee and maggie are sister in "Everyday Use". Dee is outgoing and ambitious, Maggie is shy and lazy. Maggie envies Dee, but also fears her. They act more like co-workers than siblings. In the story they don't appear to interact with each other often, which makes it difficult to develop a relationship.From the story it doesn't illustrate them ever having a close connection probably due to Maggie's shyness and envy. Alice Walker writes "Maggie will be be nervous until after her sister goes: she will stand hopelessly in corners homely and ashamed of the burn scars down her arms and legs, eyeing her sister with a mixture of envy and awe. She thinks her sister has held life always in the palm of one hand, that "no" is a word never learned to say to her." Dee(Wangero) is the most dominant one out of the two, which is no surprise since she tries take the quilts from Dee (Wangero). I found it I found it odd that she wanted those quilts because of her heritage, when she completely disgraced her heritage when she traded her own name in for Wangero. Alice writes :
Maggie relationship with Dee is full of jealousy and envy. Maggie thinks that her sister is better, prettier, and smarter than she will ever be. Because of that, Maggie is shy and intimidated when her sister and her boyfriend come home to visit for the first time in years. Dee on the other hand does not make it any better, because of her jealousy and judgmental ways make Maggie feel unloved and unappreciated. When Maggie is burn in the house fire Dee shows no concern if her sister lives or die. Even their mother knows that their relationship is nonexistent. Dee’s mother said “I used to think she hated Maggie” (Walker 154). Even as adults Dee and Maggie love for one another is arm distance away. Dee feels that her mother and sister are not claiming their heritage and are close minded country
While reading this there were some animosity toward Dee because of what type of character she was. The animosity was caused by the numerous comments and actions that occurred in the story. She was very selfish, uneducated, and very unappreciative of where she came from. Dee carried herself in a very ridiculous way. Among Dee’s family she is the object of jealousy, awe, and agitation, meanwhile she searches for her purpose and sense of self. Dee and her judgmental nature has an effect on Mama and Maggie, her younger sister. Although she across as being arrogant and insensitive, Mama sees he strive to know more and do more. Dee also portray as being a condensing type person because no matter where Mama and Maggie lived she still kept her commitment to come and visit. When Dee comes to visit she tells Maggie and Mama that she has changed her because Dee had died when she left for college. Dee changed her name to Wangoero, which come across as being an attention seeking ploy who still keeps the selfishness of Dee. With Dee changing her name to Wangoero she wants to reclaim her heritage and honor
A discussion at first, Dee`s recreation of herself when she gets back from school. Her ways have changed dramatically from going from an ordinary girl to a walking billboard for African American appreciation. By doing this Dee had gone overboard; she never understood the story behind things, she just supported anything without any background or education on the specific outlook of her own background and heritage. By deconstructing Dee`s character we find how unreal and fake she is toward her family, all she cares about are others thoughts to her. The transformation Dee goes though is not a respectable one, she becomes disrespectful to her family because everything she wants, she doesn’t understand the rightful meaning of those pieces she wants in her house. Maggie realized that she really is going to be strong and optimistic for the future, she knows that she is treasured by Mama and forms a bond with her after Dee`s visit. Mama opens her eyes to reality with Dee she knows who is the real daughter now because of how much negativity Dee brought to the family Maggie was the pleasant
The lives we lead and the type of character we possess are said to be individual decisions. Yet from early stages in our life, our character is shaped by the values, customs and mindsets of those who surround us. The characteristics of this environment affect the way we think and behave ultimately shaping us into a product of the environment we are raised in. Lily Bart, the protagonist in Edith Wharton’s The House of Mirth, is an exceedingly beautiful bachelorette who grows up accustomed to living a life of luxury amongst New York City’s upper-class in the 20th century. When her family goes bankrupt, Lily is left searching for security and stability, both of which, she is taught can be only be attained through a wealthy marriage. Although, Lily is ashamed of her society’s tendencies, she is afraid that the values taught in her upbringing shaped her into “an organism so helpless outside of its narrow range” (Wharton 423). For Lily, it comes down to a choice between two antagonistic forces: the life she desires with a happiness, freedom and love and the life she was cut out to live with wealth, prestige and power. Although, Lily’s upbringing conditioned her to desire wealth and prestige, Lily’s more significant desires happiness, freedom and love ultimately allow her to break free.
Alice Walker and Zora Neale Hurston are similar to having the same concept about black women to have a voice. Both are political, controversial, and talented experiencing negative and positive reviews in their own communities. These two influential African-American female authors describe the southern hospitality roots. Hurston was an influential writer in the Harlem Renaissance, who died from mysterious death in the sixties. Walker who is an activist and author in the early seventies confronts sexually progression in the south through the Great Depression period (Howard 200). Their theories point out feminism of encountering survival through fiction stories. As a result, Walker embraced the values of Hurston’s work that allowed a larger
The encounters various people come across in their life define the characters and personalities they develop. Family structure, an experience element frequently ignored, plays a significant role in the development of an individual’s personality. Outstandingly, the family is a sanctified union that greatly cultivates the character of an individual. The traits that a person develops from the family as they grow up in highly contribute to the type of parents they become in future. From the past to date, authors have always created awareness on how everyday family activities can influence the character of those involved. Events that negatively affect an individual could lead to dysfunctional families in future. O’Connor and Hemmingway are not
Dee is shallow and manipulative. Not only does her education separate her from her family identity and heritage, it prevents her from bonding with her mother and sister. If Dee could only push her arrogance aside, she would be able to develop a deep connection with her family. While connecting with her family, Dee would also develop a deeper understanding of her heritage. Maggie and Mama did not give in to the “whim of an outside world that doesn’t really have much to do with them” (Farrell par.1). In the attempt to “fit” in, Dee has become self-centered, and demanding with her very own family; to the extent of intimidation, and
The story makes clear that Dee is equally confused about the nature of her inheritance both from her immediate family and from the larger black tradition. Dee struggles to move beyond the limited world of her youth, and it shines through by her materialistic attitude and hardship she gives her family. Given the self centeredness and aesthetic appeal she gives, Dee still has a lot of learning to do, and still has to understand herself and will do so from the future experiences in her life.
Today, Americans are faced with the increasing change of technology in our everyday life. Sometimes the change happens and we do not realize how it affects our lives. I think it is always a good idea to talk to someone that is older than yourself, like your grandparents to remind you of the times in their younger years. Hopefully, that will open your eyes to the changes we face in this generation and the generation to come. In this chapter, the author explores the relationship of changing technology to changes in both the environment and social institutions.
In the 21st century, the world has changed in many ways. Some changes have improved the quality of life and health for many people. Others have affected people health and causing different kind of pollution that is harming the environment. That is technology we talking about, it is apply to every one of us in daily life, example the motor vehicles and factory it all producing dangerous and harmful gasses to the environment but we can not live without it.
Society has been impacted both negatively and positively by technology. As a result, every aspect of our lives has been influenced by technology. Hence, life is easier, yet it has taken away some of the enjoyment. For example, remember the days of less stress and more personal interaction, when there were no online messages, no emails, social media or cell phones. We have become excessively dependent on technology. As a result, we need to rely less on technology even though it has made learning fun, and business, daily tasks, work, travel, shopping, making new friends and staying in touch easier. In conclusion, technology has a lot of benefits, yet it could take over our lives and become our worst enemy if we aren't careful.
Technology is the ubiquitous medium by which we are increasingly getting things done. It is in this way that technology shapes culture. It is naive to think otherwise. Think about it this way; if your tool to build a house is only a hammer, then that will radically determine how you approach building that house. Contrastingly, if you have a hammer, a saw, and a drill your approach will again be informed by these media. If you look at technology as content, like a cell phone, which reminds you of prayer time and holds calls for 20 minutes, then yes culture shapes technology. Even if you look at technology as a process that defines and nurtures the way you make contact, then technology changes culture in a very particular direction. We cannot though give up on technological fixes but think in terms of an eco-technological environment where nature and the man-made implements interpenetrate. For example, mobile phone manufacturers have developed popular phones for Muslim users that support their religious practices by reminding them when it is time to pray, disabling incoming calls during prayer time, and orienting them towards Mecca. In the end however, it is not possible to put technology on one side and social context on the other. Instead, the technology and the society develop together as prevailing aesthetics and cultural preferences influence the direction of technology. Technology is a means for change in the environment in
Technology is making our life easier than before, but are we getting too much dependent on it? Technology is getting improved by past decades. It has become a part and parcel in everyday life. Without it, people would have a lot of trouble to keep pace with the whole world. At the same time, todays new generations incredibly dependent on it. They do not want to use their brain as there are lots of search engines they can easily access and can find out what they want. Technology creates problems about pollution and global warming and at the same time people are using technology to reduce these problems. Overdependence on technology is harmful for humans’ existence because it creates addiction that makes people inactive, decrease job opportunities and causes physical or mental disorders that is a great threat for mans’ life.