Choices In Jonathan Iwegbu's Civil Peace

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Our life is filled with endless possibilities and choices. Some of our choices that we make are based on what we want or what we need. These choices can have an affect on our lives and make an impact on our future. Wants and/or needs could be very simple or they could be very broad. Our wants or needs include protecting our family, having a rich lifestyle, and a desire to be perfect. To protect our family, we must make choices that could impact us negatively. In the story, “Civil Peace,” the main character, Jonathan Iwegbu, just survived a civil war with his family. He is left with no money and no job, just himself, his family, his bicycle, and his house. Jonathan chooses to find new ways to make money, such as starting a taxi service with his bike and opening a bar. His choice of seeking out new ways to make money is driven by his need and want for his family. Jonathan treasures his family and is grateful to God that they …show more content…

In today’s world of technology, a lot of people use social media to connect with people. Some people post things in their everyday life, but these post can seem unrealistic. Posts can be edited to conceal flaws and make life look perfect. Especially with teens, social media feed are often “... showing only the best and most enviable moments while concealing efforts, struggles, and the merely ordinary aspects of day-to-day life” (Jacobson). This has an impact on those who are viewing these posts and they start having negative feelings about themselves. These teens then make their own posts, making sure to mask their imperfections or things like anxiety or depression. Teens feel like they have to seem like they’re perfect so that they can get validation through their peers’ likes. Using social media can fill our desire to be perfect by editing flaws or hiding how they really feel. People choose to posts these posts because they want to be perfect and get approval from

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