What Was Anthony Childhood

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Anthony is a 47 year old married man. He lives at his own house with his wife, mother, and two teenage daughters. Anthony is still living in the same town he was born in. The furthest education he has is a high school diploma. Anthony has been employed since high school. He is currently running a successful business of sandblasting and painting that he took over from his father and older brother. Anthony has been through many traumas in his life. When Anthony was a little boy around the age of 8, he was raped by another male that was close to his family. The rapist was one of his father’s friends that Anthony used to hang out with a lot with his father. At the age of 15, Anthony’s father committed suicide at his workshop. Anthony …show more content…

After his father’s death she became practically obsolete. Anthony lived with his oldest sibling since he was 15. Anthony was the youngest with two other siblings. When Anthony was growing up, he was the one blamed for everything. He would be the one to get beat when his sister or brother did something wrong. One year, he even got coal for Christmas. This is a factor to Anthony hating Christmas today. His older brother was his best friend and his older sister was his mother figure when his mother was not around. When Anthony’s mother got remarried, he then became close with his step-father who he then started to look up to. Anthony’s mother and step-father got a divorce when Anthony was 40. The step-father is no longer …show more content…

Anthony has known his wife, Diane since middle school, they have been married for 20 years. They have had a good connection even through all of Anthony’s issues. Diane is his world and loves her to death. Anthony’s children are also his world. Anthony is a caring father and he is not abusive like how his father was. Anthony does not like close contact with others because of all the abuse he was dealt with. His daughter’s got the vibe that he never loved them because he never showed affection towards them. Both his daughters stated that they have never seen him cry. They only know something is wrong when he comes home drunk, or does not come home at all. Anthony has a strong interest in the outdoors, camping and fishing. This came from all the things he would use to do with his father. He tries to do all the activities he used to do with his father. This is an attempt to fulfill the void left by his father’s early death. His step father got him interested in race cars and going to the local race tracks. He is also interested in gambling and drinking. He tends to do some of these activities when he cannot control his emotions. He also enjoys attending his youngest daughter’s softball

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