Exploring Human Sex Differences in Mate Selection

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After careful consideration I relate more to Dr. Davis M. Buss, known for his evolutionary research on human sex differences in mate selection. Sex differences. Buss posits that men and women have faced different adaptive challenges throughout human history, which shape behavioral difference in males and females today. Example women have to carry the child for nine months and then make it though delivery. Men during pregnancy have thoughts of paternity and having as many children as possible. He also focused on short and long term mating strategies, male and female preference, deception, love, jealousy, and a host of other topics that deal hand and hand with relationships and relationship disputes. I Personally, relate to these theories because …show more content…

When I hear a situation, I think about what I would do to make this situation better or how I would handle it. I know that we cannot give advice and the client needs time to process their thoughts and feelings, but most of the time I just want to jump up, give them a hug and say ‘do this it will fix your situations’. To improve this, I would need to remove myself from the situation and not try to think about what I would do. Instead I’d listen to what the client wants when it comes to them processing their thought and issues. Also, I think I have some issues paraphrasing, I feel like when I start to paraphrase, I either end up repeating everything the client said, sounding like a parrot, or I interpret the emotion and build from there.

Growing up, I was informed that counseling was there to help people who had varieties of problems. When I was younger, I secretly thought that only serious a mental disorder required counseling, based on what I saw on television. However, I do not think that I was adversely affected by counseling stereotypes. On the positive spectrum, I would say that it was my first introduction to counseling, I knew from then it is implemented to help those who needed

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