Breaking Up

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If you want to get your ex boyfriend back and keep him you need to evaluate your current situation and what you're really facing. In the first few days and weeks following a break up many women feel such a strong sense of rejection that their judgment becomes cloudy. They simply want the pain to go away and the only way to make that happen is to reunite with the man they love. You're going to feel a strong sense of urgency to get him back right after the split. That's completely understandable. If it's already been more than a few weeks and you still feel just as strongly that he's the only man for you, you need to begin devising a plan to try and get him back. Don't get discouraged by others who will tell you it's nearly impossible to rebuild a lost love or that you'd be better off without him. Listen to your heart. If you're certain that you do want him back, you can make it happen and it's not nearly as difficult as …show more content…

Right now he likely feels justified in breaking up with you. He's feeling good about the fact that things are over because he was the one who ended it. There are always two very different sides of the coin in a break up. One person feels vindicated and emotionally strong while the other feels lost and hurt. Right now you're nicely filling the lost and hurt role. You need to switch roles with him if you have any chance of recapturing his heart. Doing that is actually very simple. You're going to reject him in much the same manner as he has rejected you. Don't get all twisted up in the idea that you can't reject someone if they've already pushed you away. You can. All you need to do is tell him that you can finally see why the break up was such a good idea and then stop talking to him. Do this with a smile on your face and you've accomplished even more. He'll suddenly be pushed into feeling rejection and the entire dynamic between you will be

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