Biological Jealousy

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Title- How Stepmoms Can Cope With ‘Biological Jealousy’ Media Type- Website 1. I have chosen to use an article from The Huffington Post called How Stepmoms Can Cope With ‘Biological Jealousy’. This is a meaningful article that is intended to explain the struggles that stepmoms and their stepchildren often face. It is noted that the main struggle of the relationship between a step parent and their step children is “Biological Jealousy”. Often the step parent tries to replace or become the primary Parent. The article provides solutions for increasing the moral and creating a stronger bond between children and their step parent. 2. Concept 1- Biological Bond Concept 2- Mother and Child Relationship Concept 3- Parenting 3. Biological bond- Relationship between the birth mother and the child. This bond is strongly formed during the gestation period. In class we watched a video, In the Womb, which went in great detail of the different points that Professor Struckmeyer and the book discussed in relation to the gestation period and birth of an infant. It is known that the mother and child are sharing many of the same resources that are necessary for …show more content…

This is mainly due to the amount of time that the two have spent together. Often the relationship between a step mother and their and their step child can be uneasy. The step mother may try to serve as a real mother to the child, and either compete with or replace the biological mother. This can cause an abundance of issues, from attempting to break a seemingly inseparable bond, or expecting the child to develop a bond of equal value with another individual, the step mother. Instead of attempting to replace the biological mother, the article states that the stepmother should try to use the relationship she has and develop that bond with the

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