Baba And Amir Relationship Analysis

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The longing for parental acceptance is often what leads to childhood downfall. At some point a child strives to make their parent proud. When a lack of attention is displayed in a parent child relationship there is a lack of communication and support. In The Kite Runner this type of relationship is shown through Baba and Amir's interactions. Throughout The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini Amir and Baba’s relationship takes many turns. Their relationship affects the plot through many situations such as when Baba acts uninterested in Amir's life, When Baba fails to treat Amir the same as Hassan, and when Baba takes his guilt and anger out on Amir.
In The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini Baba expresses an extreme lack of interest in Amir. The way Baba beats down Amir affects the plot immensely. "'What is it, Amir?' Baba said, reclining on the sofa" "His glare made my throat feel dry. I cleared it and told him I’d written a story"(Hosseini page #). Clearly Amir is scared that Baba will criticize his work. Baba shows no interest or support to Amir or his work. Every time Baba beat down Amir he lost confidence in himself. This carelessness from Baba carries on throughout The Kite Runner. Amir seeks affection from Baba anywhere he can acquire it. “it wasn’t often Baba talked to me, let alone on his lap—and I’d been a fool to waste it"(page #). This depicts how tirelessly …show more content…

From the way that child acts, to the way they present themselves, throughout their entire life they will always fall back on the foundation they were given by their parents. As shown multiple times in The Kite Runner, Amir and Baba's relationship affects Amir's life in childhood and adulthood, and the entire plot of the book. The plot of The Kite Runner is affected mainly by Baba's lack of interest in Amir's life, his failure to treat Hassan and Amir as equals, and his negative impact of taking his guilt and anger from his past out on

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