Ashton Kutcher's Has Texting Killed Romance?

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Technology has advanced immensely in the last 50 years. We are living in the digital age where technology and social media have become a part of our everyday routine. Majority of the nation owns a cell phone equipped with the ability to text. Since technology has become a very convenient way of communication, it has even managed to change human interactions and become apart of relationships. Texting limits relationships because its simply impossible to express emotion the way you can in person. Physically communicating and connecting with a person will never compare to texting or any social media.
There comes a time where as human beings we need someone physically here with us whether we need advice , support, or just someone to express our
Kutcher claims “ We haven’t lost romance in the digital age, but we may be neglecting it, in doing so, acquainted art forms are taking on new importance.The power of a handwritten letter is greater than ever. It’s personal and deliberate and means more than e-mail or text ever will.’’(96)Handwriting is different and unique for each individual. You can look at the letter and judge how much effort a person put into writing it. The mistakes they make show how we as humans are not perfect. and in an intimate relationship writing to your signficant other in a sense you are giving them apart of yourself.It shows feeling, sensitivity and thoughtfulness.Your thoughts and feelings written on paper that they can go back and review it at any time they wish. It has much more meaning versus a text that may have taken just a few seconds. The meaning behind handwriting and letters are by far much deeper. It takes a few effortless seconds to glide ones fingers across a screen and send a text.The effort put into a text does not compare to the time thought out in physical form. Thus the connection is simply not as
You have the power to alter peoples ' judgement. The average profile of an individual is the superior polished version of themselves. “ whether you like it or not, the digital age has produced a new format for modern romance, and natural selection may be favoring the quick thumbed quip peddler over the confident ice breaking alpha male. or maybe we are hiding behind a cloak of digital text and spell check to present yourselves while using these less intimate forms of communication to accelerate the courting process. so whats it really good for?” Often when first meeting someone we tend to be more reserved at first , we will read a text repeatedly 10 times to be sure thats the perfect response. Texting gives this freedom but it causes a conflict because that is not you. your first reaction in which you would have in person is you. Flaws are what make you, who you are, so Texting takes away from getting to know a person for their true personalities. Getting to know someone especially someone with special interest you simply cannot do over

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