Arguments In Favor Of Spanking

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In my point of view, I believe that children shouldn’t be spanked at any circumstance, even though; they deserve to be punished in that form. I agree with a text I found in Moral Development in Chapter 10, saying in a pictures caption, “it is better for parents to explain what the misbehavior was”. Many reasons are in favor as to why explaining your children their bad behavior rather than hitting them, such as one can injure the kid physically, your boy or girl will always remember your aggression towards him/her leaving them a hard feeling, hurting other kids the same way, and reflecting violence plus be a bad person in the future. Spanking leads to a major effect on children as they age including at that moment by hurting them. For instance,

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