Social Pressure and Hidden Truths: Understanding Acceptance

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Is there anything that you’re hiding that you’re even afraid to tell your best friend? Just walking in the halls and not knowing who you can talk to about your situation due to the pressures from society that may restrict you from acting the way you want or do what pleases you in order to meet social standards of status, success, gender roles, etc. It can cause us to lie in order to meet society's expectations and feel dignified or proud in society. Sometimes society tries to influence so much that we rebel against it, and do what isn’t “normal” anymore. Acceptance, a key part today's society, is being in the norm and fitting in. In today's society, the social class is based off of acceptance. In the novel The Outsiders by S.E. Hinton, some of the characters from the poor side of the town “greasers” were not …show more content…

Lying makes things complicated in ways that it can help or not in your situation. In the movie, “The Hunger Games,” Katniss and her teammate Peeta pretend that they’re in love with each other so they would get more sponsors and possibly be the two people to win. After they find out that there could only be one winner, Katniss pulled out poisonous berries so both Peeta and her could eat them to trick the capitol on letting them both win and go home. The lie worked, and they were both pronounced to be the victors. In the story Scarlet Letter, lying was also going on to fit into society. The character Hester was pregnant while she was single; so society judged her for it. While this was happening the text revealed that Dimmesdale, the pastor, was actually the father of the baby, but due to the fact he was the “holy man” he couldn’t say it. Hester, trying to protect Dimmesdale from the judgment of the crowd, wouldn’t say who was the dad, she kept lying to the society so it wouldn’t hurt more people. Society can make us lie to fit in or outsmart each other to get ahead of

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