A Non-Accusatory Way Of Lying

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I can’t say that your boyfriend is lying to you based on your (and his) details, if anything, he is withholding the truth (or information) from you, but there’s no overt lie involved with your description if you believe the story about his hospital stay. As others have said, based on the length of his hospital stay, it could be a mental health issue. There are other possibilities that could be involved here as well, but I wouldn’t drive yourself crazy thinking about what they might be. What I am fairly certain of is that you are thinking he is “stepping out’ on you for those 3 weeks. To this end, there is logically only one thing you can do, ask him straight out. Of course, do it in a non-accusatory manner, but firmly and clearly tell him

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