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In the film Stand by Me Reiner describes the character Chris Chambers as a boy with a terrible family that treats him and others badly which leads to him having a bad reputation. He is shown as rebellious and tough but also caring and kind-hearted to his friends and others. To his friends he acts as a mature big brother or parent for them, especially towards Gordie. Chris has a bad and abusive family that almost doesn’t care for him at all. His father is an alcoholic that abuses Chris and his brother, Eyeball, is parts of Ace’s gang, showing almost no love or care towards Chris. Because of his family, other people in the town think of Chris as a trouble-maker and no better than the rest of his family. This leads to him having a bad reputation and other people thinking he is “… just one of those low-life Chambers kids.” This makes him believe that he can get nowhere in life and that he would be stuck in the town, even though at the end and beginning of the film he is a lawyer. …show more content…
In his group of friends, he is the mediator and keeps peace within the gang, especially with Teddy. He acts as a father for his friends but mainly a brother for Gordie by giving him advice such as when he said, “You're gonna be a great writer someday, Gordie. You might even write about us guys if you ever get hard-up for material.” Although he is a kind, supportive leader for their group, he is not accepted into his community because of his bad reputation mostly caused by the rest of his
They were portrayed as four unique and entertaining individuals. Wil Wheaton (playing Gordy Lachance), presents his character’s troubles and emotions appropriately, helping the audience understand the struggle that Gordy is facing at the death of his brother. This is heightened by the absence of emotional and psychological support from his mother and father, who Gordy believes to have preferred his brother. Chris despite his own dark background is an unlikely companion to Gordy, helping him through his experience. Chris has his own troubles however, he has been labeled from his birth: his father and brother are a bad sort, and so he will turn out to be the same. Though these stereotypes bring him down he demonstrates the characteristics of a resilient and self-assured adolescent, and leads Gordy and their band on their adventure. Teddy Duchamp is most definitely the most goofy and foolish boy of the group. He acts like he has not a care in the world, leaving his friends wondering if he’ll make it to 20 years old. Although he presents this appearance, he is hiding behind a mask. Like Gordy and Chris, he comes from an abusive background. His father, after coming home from service in a war, turned to drink and became violent and uncontrollable. Teddy longs for a loving and caring father and still defends him at every opportunity. Completing the small group is Vern. He is depicted as the childish
“Don’t judge a book by it’s cover, it’s what’s inside counts” This quote reminds people about how they should not judge other people from the outside but look deep into their true personalities. Looking from the appearance and how Chris lives, everyone would assume that Chris is a crazy, foolish person and does everything without thinking. If people try to know more about Chris, they would have different perspective. Chris is intelligent, determined, independent and follows what he believes. He went into the wilderness to escape from the society that tries to suppress him and look for the meaning of life.
He chose to live deliberately to find real happiness. While living in college, Chris lived off campus in a spartan like apartment, with a couple of crates, electricity and water. After graduating college, he left behind a middle class life full of education and materialistic items to set out on a adventure that would allow him to go into the wild to find his true self. What most people in society would call crazy. A quote from Henry David Thoreau says, “Simplicity, simplicity, simplicity!” (Walden) Thoreau is saying that people should live a simple life, with out the material possessions controlling their happiness. Chris understood that materialism doesn’t create real happiness and satisfaction. He gave up the comfort of his home to go out to the wild. He gives away his possessions, something society values too much . He gives his money to charity and burns the money he has left in his wallet. He began a simply life hitchhiking, finding food and shelter in the wild and being adventurous with the land and sights around him. In this way making a statement that he rejects the social views and values of property in the search of a higher purpose within
2.Growing up I watched a show called "Everybody Hates Chris" I really love this show because it had a significance meaning behind it all. This show presents both social class and social mobility.His social class is being poor. Social mobility is being showed when they modernized their lifestyle by moving out of the projects to live in an all white neighborhood. It was difficult for chris to adapt because he was colored and was treated unfairy. His brother and sister were able to get an education in their old neighborhood while he had to go to a school called Brooklyn beach which was a poor neighborhood on the other side of his town. He's mother felt that him going to a white school will provide him with a better education. He had big responsiblities
...not be seen as an admirable person for many reasons. Chris treated his family very poorly and practiced emotional avoidance. His mom took his disappearance the worst and he left no goodbye or apology letter to her or anyone else in his family. He hurt the people who loved him dearly. McCandless was also too impressionable by trying to be like the authors who wrote the books he read. If he had been more realistic and seen the outcomes of some of their lives, he might have not tried to copy them. He also failed to follow governmental rules and was rebellious. This showed how immature Chris was. These flaws McCandless possessed cannot be seen as admirable. Christopher McCandless died happy, but he did not have to die, therefore making him an un-admirable person.
The main role of Gordie LaChance is played by Wil Wheaton. He is having trouble in his life at this time because he just lost his brother and his parents are having a very difficult time dealing with it. Chris Chambers was played by River Phoenix. Chris is considered a loser because of his family and everybody thinks he will do nothing in life. Through it all, the group of kids looks up to Chris and he is admired by them. The role of Teddy Duchamp is played by Corey Feldman. Teddy has a difficult time in life largely because his father was very mean to him before getting thrown in an insane asylum. The lack of discipline shows in that Teddy has a serious problem staying in control. He is always going crazy and his behavior presents a problem more than once to the group. Vern Tessio is played by Jerry O’Connel. He is the short little fat kid that remains a constant pest throughout the movie. Together the for kids embark on a trip through the woods that will be a challenging adventure for them all. Over the course of the movie the group has problems with individual group members, they have to work as a team, and leadership roles emerge.
While he stays at Shallow Creek, his conversation with Vanessa about his views of God shows his perception of the life: he questions how such a brutal God could exist, because Chris has a lot of pain and the world in his mind is not as bright as he appears. As his responses to adversities shape his perceptions, he no longer sees the world as a place full of hopes and he cannot hide his feeling of helplessness anymore, but although he shows his emotions to Vanessa, a thirteen-year-old girl like her cannot give him much help. Chris once again tries to solve his adversities with an unreal solution because he has no one else to talk with. Later in the story he joins the war to seek for other opportunities, however this time he does not only try to escape from the reality, but he also escapes from his nature, because his nature is never a solider: as he reveals on his letter, “[He does not] live inside [his body] anymore”. One day he is sent home from the battlefield because of a mental breakdown; this event marks his total lose of perceptions: insane people do not have perceptions. Since Chris always tries to escape from the reality and never really looks for a real solution to the problems, his perception becomes irreparably
When Chris left for his journey he wasn’t crazy or stupid as many would say. “McCandless went into the wilderness not primarily to ponder nature or the world at large, but rather to explore the inner country of his own soul” pg. 183. The fact that Chris never bother to discuss his Alaskan walk about with his anyone especially his parents wasn’t intentional. However throughout the whole book it was made very clear that he was at odds with his parents in some way to go off on his journey but he didn’t want to hurt them, which I think Walt and Billie finally realized visiting the bus where Chris had passed. I think Chris just wanted to get away from his everyday life, clear his mind, a mind that didn’t involve the worries of expectations and the thoughts of his parents hanging on his shoulders.
The settings in the story have impacts on the theme of young manhood. Chris leaves his family and decides to go on a journey to find a new life. Christopher felt affected in his family presence so he sends his final school report to his family: “McCandless was thrilled to be on his way north, and he was relieved as well-relieved that he had again evaded the impending threat of human intimacy, of friendship, and all the messy emotional baggage that comes with it”(Krakauer,55). He believes that this is a way to find his true identity and peace of mind, which he thought could be achieved by fleeing into the wild. Chris seemed to have a bad relationship with his parents, especially with his father because Chris found out that he had a child with his first wife when Chris was born. This fact is revealed by his dad’s old neighbour, “Walt’s split from his first wife, Marcia, was not a clean or amicable parting. Long after falling in love with Billie, long after she gave birth to Chris, Walt continued his relationship with Marcia in secret” (Krakauer121). Chris knew about his father’s affair with another woman and this made it easier for Chris to not care about what his family has to say ...
Stand By Me is a movie based on a novel by Stephen King. It tells the story of four preteens, who during a boring summer day, embark on a journey to find the body of a dead twelve year old, who has been missing by news accounts, but known to them, to be lying in the woods near a river bank. The story is told as an historical narrative about the lives and relationships of the four main characters in this movie, Gordy, Chris, Teddy, and Vern. In this essay, I will discuss how communication, and self-concept, affects the characters, and their interactions.
In Thoreau’s works Walden, he advertised the notion of leaving the world behind to find our true selves and Chris did just that. Chris was a intelligent man who could have gone on to have seemingly whatever he wanted, but instead he chose to distance himself from society as a whole. Chris was rather cruel though, he left his entire family behind without even a simple goodbye. One can see just how devastating that was throughout the movie as Chris’s sister is the narrator and often spoke longingly about his brother. Originally this was something that a person such as Thoreau may commend as Thoreau stated in Walden that “society is commonly too cheap.” Thoreau believed that men and women interacted with each other so frequently that all interactions had lost their meaning, that society had no value. Chris believed in this too and rebelled against society. Along his way, Chris abandons everyone who tried to help him from Rainey, a traveling
Many times in the book Chris was starving or needed a job and because he was charming either at the time or previously he could always find a meal or job. An example of this is when Westerburg first picks up Chris, Chris had not eaten in days, but because Chris was cordial he got a meal at Wayne’s friend’s house. After this he also got housing and a job from Wayne purely because of his friendliness.
Chris wanted to seek refuge from his home because of what he found out about his father. After Chris’s sophomore year of college at Emory University, during the summer he went on his usual cross-country wanderings. He went to California to visit the El Segundo neighborhood where he'd spent the first six years of his life. He called a lot of old family friends who still liv...
The Director helps show the audience their friendship and loyalty with camera shots like a close up of Gordie pointing the gun at Ace when he was about to cut Chris and also medium close up of Gordie and Chris standing side to side show Gordie standing up for Chris and also dialogue from Gordie “I’ll Kill you. I swear to god.” to show that he is standing up for Chris and that he is angry at Ace for bullying him and stealing his cap. This shows the audience that loyalty is a very important part of friendship and that good friends will stand up for you no matter who it is and they are always there for each
In chapter 13, it appears that Chris is the most mature in the group and that Gordie is in between until the end. Chris is like a leader and a parent to the gang and tells Gordie that he has to take college courses and if he doesn’t then he is a fool. Gordie seems to be a little resistant, saying that he will be with a lot of craven people and that he will stick with his friends, but Chris wants to help Gordie because his actual parents would never do anything for their only child left. Chris explains furthermore that people and friends drag you down. Chris probably wants to help Gordie, even though he is perfectly capable of taking college courses, so he can stay behind and help Vern and Teddy because they aren’t as reliable and sensible as Gordie.