The word bully can be traced back to as far as the 1530’s. In the most basic sense, it involves a victim and an intimidator. However, throughout the years, the topic of bullying has quickly spread and broadened, making its definition harder to pin down so simply. Today, we have several means, technological and otherwise, to inflict harm on others. More than ever before.
We’re all familiar with the many types of bullying. Including cyber, physical, emotional, as well as many more. Which can occur anywhere from work to school to your local park and even behind your laptop screen.
For some, school has transformed from a safe environment to grow and learn to a dreaded burden.
To make things slightly easier to explain, lets say there are mainly three types of school-bound bullies:
• The Physical Bully: exactly what it sounds like; physical. Punching, kicking, shoving or any other type of physical pain inflicted on someone.
• The PersonalSocial bully: probably the most common. These bullies act by singling out their peer in a social group. By constantly and publicly pointing out victims flaws, spreading rumours, etc.
• The Verbal Bully: name-calling, using racial slurs, comments about appearance or financial state, or their victims life at home. As well as using verbal threats.
While these types may not be the stereotypes that come to mind when we say the word bully, all of the above have an extreme affect, although not always immediate, on both the victim and the bully.
It has been found that most probably no child will go through its whole life untouched by the affect, whether direct or indirect, of bullying.
Indirectly affected are the bystanders, who aren’t really facing as high of a risk of the long-term affects that plague ...
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...ow to deal with bullies in case they face it themselves, and especially when they witness it.
Bullying will forever be a problem all over the globe. Wherever there is diversity, different views, religions, ethnicities, and upbringings, teenskids will always have something to torment others about. (Even some adults.)
Therefore it is very important to know how teachers and parents can work hand in hand to not only lesson the aftermath, or blow, bullying has on all societies, but also to work on the prevention before it is necessary. We need to work together for not only the sake of our children, but above all; our humanity.
“If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.”
- Desmond Tutu
Bullying has many negative effects on many people such as the victim, the bully himself, and society. Studies show these effects may turn out to be short-term or long-term.
In school systems today bullying is only talked about as being wrong or not tolerated. No one does anything about a bully until someone has committed suicide, tried to commit suicide, or has taken matters into their own hands violently. Administrators, teachers, and parents should pay closer attention to prevent the bullying that happens right in front of them.
...hout the corse of their life. Bully's are likely and tend to have children who then will grow up to be bullies, and the victims tend to have children who will grow up to be victims. Bullying is a cyclical problem, which is the reason as to why it impacts society as a whole, in addition to just individuals (Verial).
Over the last decade, bullying has really been a worldwide issue. Bullying is affecting children all over the world and has grown into a huge epidemic. According to the National Education Association, “160,000 kids stay home from school each day to ...
Bullying is defined as use superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone), typically to force him or her to do what one wants. This is portrayed in books movies and our everyday life. Bullying in the turn of the century has taken on a new light. This new way to bully is through the internet social media and email. Who bullies more boys or girl? More and more schools are trying to handle bullying traditionally and cyberbullying. We are finding that bullying is leading to more victims killing themselves and more bullies’ being held accountable.
The definition of bullying uses broad statements to define the actual meaning. Because of this, people may view the definition differently than others. Bullying can range from physical violence to verbal abuse to even cyberbullying. Most people do not realize how common cyberbullying actually is. Over half of teens and adolescents have been bullied online and almost the same number have engaged in the bullying (“Cyber Bullying Statistics”). Cyberbullying is becoming more and more prominent throughout this time period because of the technology continuing to expand around the world. Each year this statistic increasingly grows due to the technology
A bully is someone who picks on other people, because they think it is the way to solve their problems. There are many types of bullying, there is physical, verbal, and mental. Children that are ages five through eleven began using verbal abuse and some even use physical abuse (Garrett 33). People estimated that one hundred and sixty thousand students miss school every day, and twenty-eight million missed school days per year, due to fear of being bullied (Garrett 36). Six million boys and four million girls are involved in fights from being bullied or bullying others (Garrett 33). Also, there is an estimate that over five hundred and twenty-five thousand people are bullies in America (Garrett 35). “Freshman, particularly are the victims of bullies in high school, especially if they are small and smart” (Garrett 31-32). Many people are bullied because of the way they look, or the way they act.“ Children from violent homes are three or four times more likely to become a bully” (Garrett 30). Some bullies may make fun of people because they were made fun of, beaten, or unwanted as they grew up. Most children become bullies to gain power (Verial). Bullies do what they do so they “feel competent, successful, to control someone else, to get some relief from their own feelings of powerlessness” (Garrett 72).When children grow up they may become bullies, because of the abusive environment they were raised in by their parents.
Bullying has been a part of schooling for as long as children have been congregating. To some it seems like a natural, though uncomfortable, part of life and school experience, while to others it can mean terrifying experiences which spoiled and characterized otherwise happy years in school. Dan Olweus, a pioneer in bully behavior research documented that 2.7 million children are affected as victims, and that 2.1 children act as bullies (Fried, 1997, as cited in Aluedse, 2006). With bullying cited as the reason for violent, gun-related crime in the past few years, school districts as well as national governments have put anti-bullying policies in place. Bullying is a complicated phenomenon, involving more than one child demanding lunch money from a smaller child. It is a worldwide epidemic hitting schools everywhere. Virtually everyone has seen or experienced bullying. With technological advances, bullying is even hitting the internet. Parents, teachers, students and governments agencies alike are attempting to put a stop to bullying practices.
Bullying.. it has been around for who knows how long and it is becoming a big problem in the past couple of years. Professor Louise Arseneault, senior author, also from the Institute of Psychiatry at King's adds: "We need to move away from any perception that bullying is just an inevitable part of growing-up. Teachers, parents and policy-makers should be aware that what happens in the school playground can have long-term repercussions for children. Programmes to stop bullying are extremely important, but we also need to focus our efforts on early intervention to prevent potential problems persisting into adolescence and adulthood." I agree with this this statement 100% we need to stop looking at how this is all can be a learning process and they have to get through this. Bullying is becoming a world problem and needs to be put to a stop.
Parents and schools play a significant role in stopping bullies. The research states “the families of bullies are lacking in warmth and closeness and focused on power and dominance.” (1) To prevent bullying, parents, school staffs and all adults have a role to play. Help children who experienced bullying to understand that it is unacceptable behavior and how to stand up to it. Communication is always the key. Adults should listen to children, know what is going on around them, friends, school, and understand their concerns. Encourage children to build their interest and hobbies, this will boost their confidence and help them to make friends. Gather parents and children together is a great way to prevent and protect from bullying.
...also remember to teach our children how important kindness and compassion is. Bullying is such an unecessary evil and its up to parents, teachers and adults to protect our children from this abuse.
Whitted, K., & Dupper, D. (2005). Best practices for preventing or reducing bullying in schools. Children & Schools, 27(3), 167-175. Retrieved April 8, 2007 from EBSCO Online Database Academic Search Premier.http://search.ebscohost.com.ezproxy.apollolibrary.com/login.aspx?direct=true&db=aph&AN=17538038&site=ehost-live
There are different forms of bullying, either form bullying is intimidating act which needs to be seriously addressed. Bullying forms include; physical bullying, social bullying and verbal bullying.
Although bullying continues to be an issue in our society, but mainly in schools, all we can do is keep educating kids on what is right and wrong, letting them know the consequences of their actions both to its victim and to themselves. Also, parents can be more enlightened on how to raise their kids in healthier way so that they do not grow up seeking for attention or power in the wrong ways.
Bullying is an issue that has been around for decades and is something that can affect everyone, no matter what his or her age is. Even though bullying has changed over the years from being physical abuse and harassment that happens on the playgrounds of schoolyards to tormenting over the Internet. The same groups are still affected namely adolescents. Statistically about 30 percent of all teenagers in the United States are bullied in one-way or another (“Teenage Bullying”).