Being Tongan in America

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Envision someone moving to a new country where most of the morals, standards, and principles contradict those in which they were raised. Now imagine raising a family in this new environment. What values should they instill in their children? Would it be better to raise them as if they were back in their homeland? Would it be more beneficial for the children’s sake to completely disregard their old ways and replace them with the values taught in the new country? Is it possible to incorporate both ways into how they raise them? Tongan immigrants from Tonga who move to the United States experience this firsthand. Their children, first generation Tongan-Americans, are therefore raised in traditional Tongan households in a Westernized society. Perhaps more than any other ethnic group, Tongan-Americans face conflicting challenges growing up in America due to religious affiliation, the pressure to assimilate, and strict Tongan customs.

According to the Tonga's government census of 2006, about 97% of Tonga's population is Christian affiliated (“Population Census 2006”). Tongans are God fearing people who base most of their counsel and teachings on a spiritual scale. Tongan parents teach their children the importance of having faith in God and trusting Him with absolutely everything. In a place where society is not as heavily influenced by Christianity as it is in Tonga, Tongan-Americans find it difficult to ground their choices and judgment solely on faith. Ana Makoni, a youth leader for the Pi'ilani Ward in Kihei, Hawaii, explained that Tongan parents were born and raised in a religiously tied environment where recreational activities on Sundays were forbidden by law and where most of the laws are based on the Ten Commandments (Makoni...

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