Divorce - Cause and Effect:: 2 Works Cited
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In today’s society, divorce is more the norm than ever before. Forty percent of all marriages end in divorce. Divorce defined by Webster is the action or an instance of legally dissolving a marriage . Divorce itself is both a cause and an effect. Some of the causes of divorce include the lack of money, sexual indiscretion and the ease of getting a divorce. These are some of the most common causes of divorce. Further, the effects of a divorce seem insurmountable when comparing the grief it causes on both parties. This paper will describe some of the causes and effects of a divorce.
Many people cite money as a cause of divorce. In fact, the statistics of a survey conducted by Citibank on divorce in the United States suggested that more than fifty percent of divorced couples cited money problems as the cause of their divorce . I believe that money has a role in society and in marriage. However, the lack of money does cause discord between a married couple. This can be referred to as financial incompatibility, which is based on the views that each partner has of the partnership of marriage from a financial viewpoint . Further, he/she should also think about the effects of divorce on their financial situation. Also, they should know that divorce does not solve financial problems. Instead, the divorce must be paid for and the divorced couple must now set up two households instead of one. Further, This is a classic example of why divorce is not necessary and sex indiscretion is.
Sexually indiscretion is the second leading cause of divorce. Sexually indiscretion should never happen if you truly love your mate. When you commit sexual indiscretion you’re sending out a signal that you mate is not enough for you. In doing this you break a bond between you and your mate. The effect of sexual discretion is diverse stating. This will lead to a lack of trust between both parties involved. This particular bond once broken can not be mended in most cases. However, when sexually indiscretion is committed a divorce is inevitable.
Once a divorce is inevitable due to sexual indiscretion it is easierly attained. In the opinion of some, the no-fault divorce laws have led to the increased rate of divorce. The increase is contributed to the inexpensiveness of getting a divorce, because of the no-fault laws.
Anyone can obtain a divorce with ease, because it is inexpensive. The effect of sexual indiscretion and the no fault laws is more divorces. The bottom line is the lack of commitment in most cases. The lackadaisical attitude toward the sanctity of marriage is a major cause of divorce. Once this attitude is obtained divorce is sure to follow.
In concluding: Why do we take the vow of I take the to be my lawfully wedded husband/wife, to love and cherish in sickness and in health to death do us part if we really do not intend to? Obviously, we don’t all live up to that vow or promise. So statistic confirm that one out of every two marriages in the United States will end up in divorce. Why do many couples break their vows? A clear understanding of the institution of marriage can help prospective candidates approach it with the right preparation. The right prospective is to know that most marriages break up because of the lack of emotional preparation and a sound financial foundation. This causes displacement and misinterpretation of family values. So in knowing this, let us please compromise and get on the same accord.
1. http://www. Webster. com
2. Anonymous “ why money is the leading cause of divorce,” Jet (1996): November, V91 NL pp. 34 (3)