Reasons for Addiction

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How do you know when you are addicted to something? Is it a choice or just an effect? What most people do not understand, is that no one really chooses to be an addict. Being addicted to something such as drugs, alcohol, food, etc., is not due to someone waking up one day and saying 'hey, I would really enjoy not being able to cope without a substance.' It is mostly due to deeper issues like depression or influences, things of that nature, which lead someone on the path for their search of an escape. More times than not, that escape is found in drugs or alcohol. These substances allow a false reality to take place. They alter a persons mind, and let them believe, for that five minutes or hour, that their problems are nonexistent. That "feel good" high makes a person want more and they, in turn, become addicted to this substance because it is the only thing that makes them feel good. What is the root of this effect, though? It can differ from anything from having a loved one die, to just feeling left out in a group. In my situation, however, it all started out with a silly girl. Drug abuse can result from three basic things: depression, influences, and being unaware.

In most drug related cases, depression is an immediate cause. Having something catastrophic happen in someones life, maybe the person is just lonely, possible psychological issues, or even just family problems can amount to depression. A major reason depression leads to drug abuse is because people do not talk about their problems. Instead, they let it ball up until they have no way to get away from them. In some ways, drugs are like a last resort. When someone is unsure of how to fix their problems, they will often turn to an outside source rather than dealing wi...

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...eir drugs. Before my boyfriend reached the point of moving on, he was much like this. When his problems began to surface with me, he and I began to argue day in and day out; trying to find a compromise. His disregard for the new found notion that the drugs were now affecting him negatively drove him to a bad place. It was not until about a month later that he was, finally, ready to stop. He entered into a support group and later rehab. Although he overcame an almost three year addiction, it still affects his life today. No longer is this a negative affect, but more of a positive one, though. For this experience changed him for the better. Drug abuse does happen to be a choice, but drug addiction is not. It is an effect of many misfortunes and problems that arise within an individuals life. What is much like a modern day coping mechanism, is more like a modern day rut.

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