Motherly Love in Amy Tan’s Joy Luck Club
A mother’s love for a daughter is an intense feeling; some times it can be very joyful or very painful. Most mothers just want their daughters to have everything that they didn’t have, they try to give their daughter all their hopes and dreams. The relationship between a mother and daughter should be one of the greatest relationships a woman can have with another woman. Some time a mother can push a daughter to hard, some mother don’t mean to make their daughter feel bad or to make them up-set, the mothers just want the daughter to have better then what they had. A mother gives her daughter advice about everything in life.
“A Mother’s Advice to her Daughter.”
“Be strong. Be intelligent. Smile knows that beauty has everything to do with how you feel about yourself and nothing to do with looks or other people’s opinions. Never do anything just because everyone else is if you believe it’s wrong. Always be true to yourself. Expect the best from life and that’s what you’ll get. Learn from your mistakes and failures. Believe in magic and wish on stars. Love and trust and be compassionate. Make faces. Play in mud puddles. Take bubbles baths. Turn off all the lights and watch lightning storms. Dance, laugh, cry, and sing when you want to. Read everything you can get your hands on. Stand up for what is right especially if you stand-alone. Don’t allow yourself or people around you to tolerate prejudices of, any kind. Don’t be afraid to at least once a week. Run through snowdrifts. Spin in circles and roll down hills. Pet afternoon naps. Stay up to watch the sunrise. Never apologize for being a woman or for being yourself. Never forget that I Love you more than any ...
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...omen, she did not want to look and see what her husband was doing. Each marriage was not stable in any kind of way and some kind of household item was a sensible of their marriages. How each item broke too sensible that their marriage had fallen apart.
The lives of eight Chinese women are told throughout the book The Joy Luck Club. How their childhood was, their first marriage was and all their hopes and dreams that they wish to come true. A mother’s love for a daughter can some be joyful or very painful. In the case of these women all the mothers want was their daughter would not make the same mistakes that they did in the past, and for them to learn for those mistake. That is the love for a daughter from her mother. A mother gives her daughter advice about everything in life.
WORKS CITED
Tan, Amy. The Joy Luck Club. New York: Random House, 1989.
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