Shiloh by Bobby Ann Mason
In Bobby Ann Mason's "Shiloh",Leroy and Norma Jean Moffit are involved in a very ordinary yet dysfunctional marriage. They have both spent their entire lives in Kentucky and have been surrouded by the same people for most of their lives. They married when they were eighteen becuase Norma Jean was pregnant with their son Randy. Randy died just a few months after he was born, which left a lasting, but unspoken impression on their marriage. Leroy was a truck driver up until four months ago when he got into an accident and he could no longer drive his rig. Norma Jean works at the Rexall, and spends a lot of time with her mother Mabel. They have spent a majority of their marriage apart due to Leroy's job, which is the only reason their marriage lasted as long as it has.
It is hard to say what is ordinary in today's world. If you compare Leroy and Norma Jean's marriage to the majority of the world they are normal; which is dysfunctional by today's standards. Like many couples today, Norma Jean and Leroy lead separate lives. The only difference is that now they have been forced back into each other's lives. "He has the feeling that they are waking up out of a dream together-that they must create a new marriage, start afresh." Norma Jean does not seem interested in starting afresh. She seems like she wants to give up and move on. Throughout the story, Leory and Norma Jean never really talk. There is no affection or feeling. They just go about their lives like nothing has changed or really matters. Leroy loves Norma Jean, but he does not know how to show it, or even if he should.
When they were separated for long periods of time there was a sense of excitement when Leroy would return from a long haul. "Before his accident, when Leroy came home he used to stay in the house with Norma Jean, watching TV in bed and playing cards. She would cook fried chicken, picnic ham, chocolate pie- all his favorites. Now he is home alone much of the time." Now that Leroy is home all the time there is no excitement. It is just the same thing day after day. This rings true in many marriages in todays society. Many marriages today are boring and unfufilling. Couples are searching for something they may never find.
The social, cultural and political history of America as it affects the life course of American citizens became very real to us as the Delany sisters, Sadie and Bessie, recounted their life course spanning a century of living in their book "Having Our Say." The Delany sisters’ lives covered the period of their childhood in Raleigh, North Carolina, after the "Surrender" to their adult lives in Harlem, New York City during the roaring twenties, to a quiet retirement in suburban, New York City, as self-styled "maiden ladies." At the ages of 102 and 104, these ladies have lived long enough to look back over a century of their existence and appreciate the value of a good family life and companionship, also to have the last laugh that in spite of all their struggles with racism, sexism, political and economic changes they triumphed (Having Our Say).
The setting in the short story “Shiloh” by Bobbie Ann Mason works well to accentuate the theme of the story. The theme portrayed by Mason is that most people change along with their environment, with the exception of the few who are unwilling to adapt making it difficult for things such as marriage to work out successfully. These difficulties are apparent in Norma Jean and Leroy’s marriage. As Norma Jean advances herself, their marriage ultimately collapses due to Leroy’s unwillingness to adapt with her and the changing environment.
The novel Saint Maybe by Anne Tyler is a beautifully thought out book that follows the complicated life of seventeen-year-old Ian Bedloe as he seeks forgiveness for his sins both from himself and from God. Ian blamed himself for causing his older brother, Danny’s suicide and his guilt slowly ate away at him until he was drawn into the Church of Second Chance. By this time, Ian was in college and both Danny’s daughter and step-children were orphaned and being taken care of by his elderly parents. So Reverend Emmett, the pastor of Ian’s newfound church, decided that the only way Ian could find forgiveness from God and from himself was to quit college and offer up all his time to raise Danny’s children. The plot spans the time frame of about 25 years, in which time Ian and the three children slowly mature and become very developed, intricate characters, and the story takes place in the city of Baltimore through the years 1965 to 1990. Anne Tyler spins a very believable tale, using a writing style that easily reminds the reader how quickly life goes by.
... chapter in Norma Jean and Leroy's life now that they will be apart. There is nothing left in their marriage that can keep them together because according to Norma Jean it was over a long time ago.
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The struggle to battle with the persistent grief of self-blame and lack of identity is a constant reminder to the barriers in relationships. Leroy grieves over the fact that he has lost his identity as a father and husband. Although he often thinks of Randy, the memories of him have faded. As a result, he latches on to Norma Jean but she doesn’t respond back. This causes him to feel like a failure of a husband. Norma Jean is grieving over the emptiness in her life. It was not the life she thought she would have. Her deceased son symbolizes her emptiness because of his death. She also feels emptiness towards her husband. For example, she feels very uncomfortable around him and always tries to find something for him to do. When Leroy arrives back home from his accident Mason implies, “he thinks she’s seems a little disappointed” (Mason 220), displaying Norma Jean frustrated with his lying around doing nothing but watching television and smoking pot. In addition, Norma Jean feels emptiness towards her mother, which is presented in the way her mother criticizes her. When tragedies occur in a family and self-confidence fades it can take over your life a...
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