Misconception of Women's Role in Relationships

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Every person is entitled to his or her own personal ways of life to become his or her own individual. However, some people have unbalanced roles in life between themselves and their couple. The women in the relationship tend to be the persons who get manipulated into just providing and satisfying their significant other’s needs. This ongoing unbalance between the sexes, has been happening since forever and women feel secure when being together with a man. Mrs. Ames from Astronomer’s wife and Jig from Hills like White Elephants are both women who have depended on a man for secureness but with ambiguous communication, these women are finding affection elsewhere.

Mrs. Ames from Astronomer’s wife is a great illustration of women feeling comfortable in their relationship to the point that they do not recognize how unhappy their relationship really is. For example, the author mentions “to survive women cling to the floating debris on the tide" (64). Meaning, women need to depend on someone to help them survive but when truth is told and their identity is found, there is no more need to hold on to survive. A similar life lesson, with a much different approach can be examined in Jig from Hills like White Elephants short story. Jig is a woman with much more problems than just making an extreme decision that could change her life but a woman in an unhappy relationship.

In the beginning of Astronomer’s wife, Mrs. Ames starts off with having her husband sleep in while she deals with the flood going on in her home. Having to call a plumber to come fix the problem, she was very impressed with the plumber’s manors, and he also had respect something she thought her husband was lacking on. Since the flood was caused by the toilet over flowing ...

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