How to End a Relationship...

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Relationships is a step that two people take since they connected in a romantic way. For some, it might seem far away, but others can’t wait for it to end. Some signs to know you’re on a failed relationship could be lack of respect, no time for each other, can’t find common ground, tired of the same routine and bickering and fighting. Those were some signs that some can be solved but mostly is of a failed relationship. Ending a relationship isn’t as simple as it looks, since there was love or some wouldn’t admit it but at least they cared for each other. One of the reasons you might be reading this is because you want some guidance or advice, and that’s why we recommend you keep reading.

If you’re still considering your relationship and you see it hasn’t been what you thought it would be, don’t do nothing rational, make a list of all the reasons you’re unhappy in your relationship. Of all the reasons you shouldn’t try to lower your standards if they aren’t fixable. Once you are completely decided to end it, don’t go and tell those around you that might tell your boyfriend or girlfriend first, you can tell those who are close for advice but the honest and mature way is to tell you boyfriend and girlfriend after you have a clear mind on your decision. Ending a relationship has to be planned because you can’t break up before a big test or before work, try to let the boyfriend or girlfriend time to recover from what they might think it was a stab in the back. Also don’t break up somewhere with a meaning to both of you, because it might be a little awkward later on. In the steps to getting ready to end the relationship you have respect that he or she deserves and you should end it in person, although is acceptable to break up by phon...

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...ause you might repeat it. Try new things, push your comfort zone and enjoy what life puts in your path.

Finally we conclude that ending a relationship is a difficult task and must be done carefully and properly to avoid anger and resentment. When you’re going to break up be honest, forward and understanding. If you ignore the one dumped it shows that you’re not being forward and your inability to confront the issues at hand. Confronting isn’t about bringing the past is about sitting down and speak your mind, to let him or her know where you stand. It shows maturity and respect to meet face to face and clearing things out. You wanted a break up because you didn’t like how you felt, so don’t let the past hold you down. Be happy with yourself and take time to discover the new you. Maybe that’s what you wanted, but felt like somebody wasn’t letting you be you.

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