Face-to-Face Communication and Cellphones

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We live in a society where almost everything is at our fingertips, quite literally. The cellphone has made it to where you can communicate quickly with almost anyone, but is faster necessarily better? The use of cellphones as a form of communication has not only changed the way we communicate, but even with who, where, and for how long. The days of letters and face-to-face communication are quickly becoming part of our past, and phone calls are not too far behind. Instead of communication in these ways, cellphones allow you to quick and easily send an email or a text message to your family, friends, or coworkers. We may be communicating quicker, but what is happening to the quality?
Cellphones are more popular now than ever before. The average age of children getting their first cell phones is 8-years-old and more than 35 percent of children in second and third grade own cell phones according to Sean Boswell, author of a campus newsletter. He states that “The irony is that these young kids are now becoming more versed in texting lingo than they are in proper English and face-to-face conversation”. This isn’t a coincidence. Text messaging has quickly risen to one of the most preferred methods of communication. It is quick and convenient but it affects our ability to communicate. Quick communication is a good thing but people who primarily text are pushing the limits. According to Zawn Villines, a GoodTherapy.org Correspondent, text messaging is affecting face-to-face, surface level, and written communication.
The fast paced single thought communication encouraged by text messaging simply does not line up with face-to-face communication. Face-to-face communication is usually much slower in pace and deeper in content. When yo...

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...ness. This demonstrates the breakdown of communication and the increase in loneliness through the excessive use of types of communication such as text messaging vs. verbal face to face and mobile voice calls. We are putting ourselves in this never ending cycle. It is easy to text message to keep in touch, so we do, then we get lonely, and we text some more.
Family time is something that most cherish but what happens when your teen gets sucked into their own world? Devitt, Kerry, and Debi Roker conducted a study on families with young children that use cell phones. In the study many families said that the role cellphones played in their family communication was negative, however some said it was a positive. This study uncovered the issue of children withdrawing into their own social worlds and the communication breakdown of families with cellphone using children.

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